Episode 355

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24th Mar 2026

How Synesthesia Shapes Creativity, Intuition, and Relationships | RR355

In this episode of Relationships Rule, I had the pleasure of speaking with intuitive artist and spiritual teacher Heather Eck about seeing people and relationships in a completely different way.

Heather experiences the world through synesthesia, a condition where senses overlap. In her case, people, emotions, and experiences appear as color. What began as a unique way of perceiving the world eventually became the foundation for her work as an artist and guide helping others reconnect with their intuition.

During our conversation, Heather shared how color can reveal emotional patterns, why intuition often speaks before logic does, and how paying attention to subtle signals can deepen our relationships. We also talked about her journey from a successful corporate HR career into the creative and spiritual work she now does helping people gain clarity and healing through color and art.

What I found especially fascinating was how Heather uses color as a language for understanding people. It reminded me that strong relationships are built not only on what we say, but also on how deeply we listen and how present we are with one another.

This conversation invites us to slow down, trust our intuition a little more, and become more aware of the energy we bring into our relationships.

Key Takeaways

  1. Synesthesia creates a different lens for understanding people - Heather experiences people, emotions, and environments through color, giving her a unique way of sensing energy and emotional patterns.
  2. Intuition often speaks before logic - Many decisions cannot be solved through analysis alone. Learning to notice body signals and intuitive cues can bring clarity.
  3. Color can reveal emotional patterns - The colors people are drawn to or avoid may reflect underlying emotions or experiences.
  4. Creative expression can be a path to healing - Art can help people process emotions, reconnect with themselves, and move through difficult experiences.
  5. Stronger relationships come from deeper awareness - Paying attention to subtle emotional signals can help us understand others and connect more authentically.

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Transcript
Janice Porter:

Heather, have you ever wondered if there's more to

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understanding people than what we hear or see on the surface?

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Well, today's conversation invites us to look at

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relationships in a completely different way. My guest, Heather

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Eck experiences the world primarily through color, but

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we'll find out more as we go along. As an intuitive artist

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with synesthesia, she interprets people, emotions and energy

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through color and translates those experiences into art that

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supports healing and connection. And in this episode, we explore

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how intuition, creativity and awareness can help us better

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understand ourselves and the people around us. So welcome to

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the show, Heather,

Heather Eck:

thank you so much for having me. It's so nice to

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see you.

Janice Porter:

Yes, I'm excited to be to learn more about you

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and the work that you do. And I think in I did ask you this

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ahead of time that I think my listeners probably are not

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familiar most of them with synesthesia, which I wasn't. And

Janice Porter:

I wondered if you explain that to us what it is and how it

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shows up in your everyday life?

Heather Eck:

Yeah, of course. So if you are familiar with this

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movie called Ratatouille, it's a Pixar movie that came out a few

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years ago about the little rat that likes to cook. There's a

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scene. It's one of my favorites.

Janice Porter:

I haven't, I don't think I actually saw that

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movie, but it was funny that you mentioned that movie, because my

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nephew, we always think he looks like the chef,

Heather Eck:

like the chef, yeah, yeah. So anyway,

Janice Porter:

yeah, right. I'm gonna watch it now. Okay, you'll

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love it. The little rat, okay,

Heather Eck:

Remy, the little rat. He is. There's a scene

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where he is in like a black screen, and he's holding a

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strawberry and a piece of cheese, and he takes a bite, and

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then behind him, on screen, you see colorful swirls, and then he

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takes a bite of the cheese, and you see colorful swirls. And

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that is, I think, a perfect visual of what happens in a

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synesthetes mind, depending on what form of synesthesia they

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have. But it's essentially where your brain's signals sort of

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cross. And so for me, if I taste something or smell something or

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hear music or meet somebody, I will see their energy in my mind

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as a shape or color or even a choreography. And there are over

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80 different forms of synesthesia. And so it can be

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things like you might the days of the week as colors or music

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as color, or I have something called Mirror touch pain, which

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is essentially, if I see that somebody's in pain, or I think

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about their pain, I'll get pain that rakes down the backs of my

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legs. And it's just that I'm sort of interpreting their pain

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through a physical sensation and and that happens to me a lot

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with people. When I meet them, I feel in my body what is

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happening with them energetically. Wow.

Janice Porter:

And I did do a little bit of research on it,

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and and i i will say here, that what I read says synesthesia

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isn't a disease or disorder. It won't harm your health, and it

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doesn't mean you're mentally ill. Some studies suggest people

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who have it may do better on memory and intelligence tests

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than those who don't. And while it may seem easy to make up,

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there's proof that it's a real condition. And I'm and I'm I'm

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guessing that it's kind of like you said it, that your five

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senses, they get mixed up, or they're this. The synapses

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aren't, aren't perfectly separated or something, right?

Janice Porter:

Yeah, yeah. And very fascinating. I'm going to say

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this now before we get into talking about more about what

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you do. But I remember, and I don't know if this is a form of

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it or this, was it an experience of that or not. But it sounds to

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me like it was. I once had a friend who was or an

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acquaintance who was a, I guess, a psychic. She she did readings

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for people, and I loved what she did. And my girlfriend lost her

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son, and she was seeking out things, and she went to hear or

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went to have us a reading with this woman and the woman before

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she went to visit my friend, she had talked to me, and she knew a

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little bit about that fact that my friend had lost her son. He

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was a basketball player and a hero in the school, and it was a

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very sad accident on grad night, he got hit by a bus, blah, blah,

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blah, but, and in fact, it's 20 years ago this month, so it's

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kind of this this year, and my the. A psychic said to me

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something. She asked me a question. She said I got this

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very horrific smell when I started to do a little bit of,

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you know, focus on this person. And it turns out, when she told

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my friend that it made sense, because her son had the worst

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smelling running shoes in his Lacher like all the time now, is

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that a sense of of synesthesia?

Heather Eck:

Oh, that's a really great question. So I mean, yeah,

Heather Eck:

yeah, yeah, it's a great question. I'm so sorry for your

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friends. Yeah, and

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it was, as I said, 20 years ago, but yeah,

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still.

Heather Eck:

It's still there. Yeah. So there are all of us

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have spiritual gifts. We all come into this life with those.

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And there are what are called the Claires. And so you have

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Claire audience, which is clear here, hearing, or Claire

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cognizance, clear knowing. There's one called Clear aliens,

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which is about smell. And so I have a little bit of that too,

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where you can sort of pick up on somewhat like, for example, I

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can smell the New York City subway through a TV show like I

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can smell that you talk about something I can smell. If I

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think about my grandfather, I might smell his pipe, so that

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that's a form of Claire. And I think my strongest Claire is

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Claire sentience, which is clear feeling. And I think that's sort

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of where I pick up on somebody energetically through their

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emotional body, and then it comes through to me, or it sort

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of expresses itself in my mind, through color, through shape or

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through form. But a lot of times I interviewed somebody today who

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had also lost his daughter a number of years ago, and the

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whole time I was talking to him, I just felt like I was going to

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cry. I kept wiping my eyes, and I think it was just that his

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energy is still so immersed in that grief space that it's

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pervasive, and so I feel it. So I think it's a form. I think

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it's a, probably a Claire, but it, if she saw it, it probably

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also is a form of some kind of synesthesia too.

Janice Porter:

Yeah, interesting. So when did you

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first realize that you were experiencing people and

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situations through your senses that way.

Heather Eck:

Honestly, I think that I have been this way since

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I was a little kid, and I just didn't know what it was called.

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I did not know that it was called synesthesia until I was

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in my early 40s, and I saw another artist online who said,

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I have sound to color synesthesia. And she was

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painting songs, and I went, Oh, wait a second. I thought that

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everybody had that. I didn't know that it wasn't a thing that

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everybody had. And so I would lay when I was a little kid, you

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know, like when you walk into a room and you sort of know what's

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happening with the people. You get a feel for five attention

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here, you know, or something like that. So that was always

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with me. And then I would lay in my room and I would draw or

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paint or what have you, but I would draw the music that I was

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listening to. And I specifically remember there was this movie

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that came out in the late 90s called the piano, and I laid on

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the floor and drew what the music looked like. And so I

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think it's been with me for a long time.

Janice Porter:

So then it's not genetic. It's not hereditary.

Heather Eck:

You know, I asked my dad this because I think my

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dad is, you know, we all have spiritual gifts. I think my dad

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has them. He just hasn't tapped into them. But I asked him one

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time. I'm like, did you when you tasted that, Dad? Did you see

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it? Yeah, because I'll taste something and I'll go, oh, it

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goes like this up, and then, you know, in my mind, it has like a

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shape. And so I was like, did that? What does that look like

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to you? I'm like, I think he's got it too. He just doesn't

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know,

Janice Porter:

interesting. No, we don't really know if it's

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hereditary. Then, in your

Heather Eck:

case, I don't know, yeah, are you left handed? No,

Heather Eck:

I'm right handed. But for a while, I did a lot of things

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left handed. I would like play pool left handed, and

Janice Porter:

it says that it's more prevalent in left handed

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people in what? Yeah, no, yeah, I'm left handed, but don't see

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things in colors or in shapes or whatever, but anyway,

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fascinating. So all right, so how does synesthesia influence

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the way you understand people and the energy they bring into a

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relationship? How does it affect how you talk to people? What

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color Am I like? What are you seeing talking to me? Because

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that's what it makes me want to ask you,

Heather Eck:

yeah, yeah. So I see yellow and green around

Janice Porter:

you. I don't like those colors.

Heather Eck:

I'm going to be really honest with you, I don't

Heather Eck:

like those colors either, but they're not bad.

Janice Porter:

That's hysterical. Those are my least

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favorite colors.

Heather Eck:

I don't like yellow and green together. I can't

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stand it. I haven't needed it since I was a little kid. It's a

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weird thing. I just don't like the two of them together, like

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the lemon lime. I'm not a fan, but energetically, what they

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show me is that you dwell in your solar plexus and in your

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heart, and so those two colors reflect where you spend most of

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your time. Solar Plexus can be all about your sense of

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identity, how you want to show up and represent yourself to

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people, how you want people to see you, your sense of optimism,

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of joy, of self worth, of confidence, and also in your

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heart, which is all about your ability to love, accept,

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forgive, cherish, nourish your yourself and your heart. So

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green is all about self, love, acceptance and compassion.

Janice Porter:

So interesting, though, because when I think of

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green, I think of envy. I think of jealousy, right, which is,

Janice Porter:

yeah, traditional sort of, right,

Heather Eck:

yeah, there's a there's so I sort of see the

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colors as connected to energy centers, if you think about

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chakras, yeah, that was my original understanding of them.

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Now I sort of align them more with like Biblical

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understanding, or even like a Levitical understanding, because

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I think of having how God created everything, and from

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that came color too. So now I associate it more that way. So

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green is a color of nature. It's a color of of nourishment, of

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growth, of flourishing.

Janice Porter:

And my last name was my maid, Greenfield. No

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kidding. How funny. Really interesting. Okay, so you spent

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years working in the corporate world. How many of us didn't

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before becoming a full time intuitive artist? So what was

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the turning point that led you to trust that path?

Heather Eck:

It did not happen overnight. It was a long road i

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i was like a certification chaser. You know, I was looking

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for something. I couldn't find it. I did everything from

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Pilates to HR to my coaching certification too. I mean, I

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dabbled in everything I and I think it was because I was

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seeking something. And I had always been a very spiritual

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person, and I was working with a spiritual teacher, and I'd kind

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of reached this point in my career and in my life where I

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really hated every, every single part of it, you know, like I was

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exhausted. I remember specifically we drove down to

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Disney for vacation, and I borrowed one of those Wi Fi

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things from it, and I worked the entire drive down like I was

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just torn up. And I went to see my spiritual teacher, and she

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said, What were you like as a kid? Because your gifts show up

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when you're a kid. And that was very true for me, that creative

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expression was pervasive for me when I was younger. And the

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instant that she said creative expression. It was like a light

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bulb went off in my mind, and I started painting. And I was

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painting in the morning before work, and painting for people,

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you know, at night, doing spirit portraits and stuff. And I

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started to get to this point where I thought I no amount of

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time off is going to make me feel better. And and I wanted to

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leave, but I didn't know how, and on one day, I received a

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promotion and an enormous raise, and I received my very first art

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show on the exact same day. And I was so mad. I was so irritated

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by that, because I Yeah, because I felt like I felt like I was

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getting mixed signals from the universe about what to do. I

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felt like I felt like I was mad at God, honestly, because I was

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like, Well, you told me to do this art thing, and then you

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give me the more money than I've ever seen in my life. Like, what

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are what am I supposed to do here? But I think that what I

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was doing was sending mixed signals, because I was trying to

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straddle both worlds, and that does not work. And so, long

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story short, I had this very challenging manager, and he had

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kind of pushed me to the edge one day, and I said, That's it.

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I'm done. And I decided I would resign. And I went in to tell

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him that I was planning on resigning, but that I would work

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through the rest of the year. And as soon as I said, I'm

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giving you my notice, he was like, Let's go tell your team.

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And within two weeks, I was I was done. And honestly, it was

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as though I had never had any work at all there. Within that

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two weeks time, it was like projects just obliterate, just

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like disappeared. And I think that that was God's way of

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saying, like you're done. Because had I decided to stay

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and work for another couple of months, I don't think I ever

Heather Eck:

would have left. I think I'd still be there.

Janice Porter:

Oh, I was thinking that it showed your

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boss's true colors, and how you could maybe never have worked

Janice Porter:

for him much longer. Younger than the two weeks. Yeah, been

Heather Eck:

painful. It would have been painful, yeah?

Janice Porter:

But, I mean, we live in that world that when we

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don't know anything better, and we're fearful of what's out

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there, because especially when you've got that good money

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hanging over your head. So I can see that being part of the the

Janice Porter:

issue as well. But for sure, yeah, so when you went out on

Janice Porter:

your own, you had your first art show ready to get ready for then

Janice Porter:

right away,

Heather Eck:

I had had a couple of art shows. I felt like I had

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that first art show that I did. I did a few while I was still

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working, and then afterwards, kind of started to dig into,

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well, now what do I do? How do I find more work? How do I show my

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work and then, how do I, you know, build a business out of

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this too?

Janice Porter:

Did did you have any one thing that helped that,

Janice Porter:

you know, catapulted things for you?

Heather Eck:

Honestly, what's really funny is when I look back

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at the timing of everything. I think it's so divine, because I

Heather Eck:

left in September 2019 and then covid happened in March 2020 and

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my son was in second grade at the time, and so I was able to

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be home with him, running my business while helping support

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him, which was such a blessing, because I don't know that I

Heather Eck:

could have done that corporate HR job and school at the same

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time. But I also think during that time, a lot of people, you

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know, they looked around in their lives, in their homes and

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their offices, and they were like, I need to change things up

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here. So I sold more art in that year, that last year of covid,

Heather Eck:

than I had ever sold before. I think for that reason too. So

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that was really nice.

Janice Porter:

So, so is your primary work now your artwork,

Janice Porter:

or is it using art to help? Because I know you help high

Janice Porter:

achieving women make the decision that they've been

Janice Porter:

circling for months is what it says on here, on your LinkedIn

Janice Porter:

profile and and you, you've registered the color mapping

Janice Porter:

method. So do you teach art as well?

Heather Eck:

I do. Yeah. Okay, yeah. So my day is really split

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between making art, because I like to make large, abstract

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pieces that sort of reflect the energy of what's happening in

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the world, or I'm, I'm, for the last couple of years have been

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really immersed in biblical study and in learning Hebrew,

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and really kind of tapping into this ancient wisdom and painting

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what I read, which is really exciting. And so I do that, and

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then work through, work on getting exhibitions and showing

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that work. And then also working with women, one on one through

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sort of creative I would call it like spiritual therapeutic art,

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because I look at where I was at that time, when I was in

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corporate and couldn't figure out how to get out of this place

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that I felt so miserable in, and art really started to bring me

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back to myself. And I meet a lot of women who they don't

Heather Eck:

necessarily want to quit their jobs to become artists, but they

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do want to rediscover this part of themselves that they've lost

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sight of. And a lot of the people that I talk to have just

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lost this creative side of themselves. They just have sort

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of forgotten what it's like to play. And we learn so much about

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ourselves through art, whether we're journaling or writing or

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doodling. And so it's sort of a combination of art and coaching

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combined, where we'll sit down, I'll do a color reading for like

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I just did for you, and say, here's what I see, and here's

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what that might represent. And we use that as sort of a jumping

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off point. And then we'll say, well, let's explore that. Here's

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an art exercise, or hear a journal on this. And it's

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amazing what comes up when you just give yourself a few minutes

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of quiet and allow yourself to think and feel. And I just

Heather Eck:

helped somebody the other day. She was like, I got this client.

Heather Eck:

I want to break up with this client. And I'm, you know, here

Heather Eck:

are the reasons why. I don't want to money. Of course, I

Heather Eck:

don't want to make up with this client. And so we worked through

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and I had her do an art therapeutic art exercise, and at

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the end she goes, Why am I? I obviously want to fire this

Heather Eck:

client, so I'm just going to do it. So she had enough. But

Heather Eck:

sometimes I think it's the permission slip that you need.

Janice Porter:

Well, well, I was, I was just thinking when

Janice Porter:

you were talking about, in order to for you to help these people,

Janice Porter:

these women who are going through, there has to be a trust

Janice Porter:

there that happens for them to work with you. Does that come

Janice Porter:

quickly because you're so intuitive, or are is most of

Janice Porter:

your work referral based, but still, you're talking to people

Janice Porter:

you don't know very well, perhaps at the beginning. So

Janice Porter:

where do you see or how do you make that happen?

Heather Eck:

Yeah, that's a great question. I think, I think

Heather Eck:

there is a little bit of a longer runway, because it is.

Heather Eck:

Yes, trust it. So. So it's sometimes I think about, like,

Heather Eck:

going to see a psychic, right? You're like, yeah, I don't know

Heather Eck:

this lady. She's going to tell me, yeah, some stuff about

Heather Eck:

myself. I think that color is a really gentle way of exploring

Heather Eck:

an aspect of yourself, right? Like, if I say, Oh, I see blue

Heather Eck:

around you, and blue tells me that there's an aspect of your

Heather Eck:

life that you have been unwilling to speak about or talk

Heather Eck:

about, or a truth that you're withholding. Just by saying that

Heather Eck:

to somebody, they go, Oh my gosh, you know, yeah. And they

Heather Eck:

know, they know immediately. And I think, because, I think I

Heather Eck:

credit a lot, a lot of my 20 plus years in HR and my coaching

Heather Eck:

certification for being able to just hold space for somebody

Heather Eck:

while they process something like that. And so I think after,

Heather Eck:

you know, building that trust and sharing that information,

Heather Eck:

there tends to be this instant sort of like, okay, yeah, let's

Janice Porter:

do it. Let's they're comfortable. They're

Janice Porter:

more comfortable quickly. Yeah, it's funny. I was on a

Janice Porter:

networking, online networking thing this morning, and it was

Janice Porter:

with some people I did not know. It was the first time I'd gone

Janice Porter:

to this thing, and I was invited by a gentleman that I had

Janice Porter:

interviewed on my podcast. And the people that were there were

Janice Porter:

all very easy to talk to and very comfortable to share things

Janice Porter:

with, very quickly. And because he had us do an exercise in

Janice Porter:

breakout rooms about trust and about, I forget now what it was,

Janice Porter:

but it was, can you build Yeah, about toxic people in your life,

Janice Porter:

and can you actually build trust virtually quickly? And it was

Janice Porter:

really interesting exercise, but I think the people in the room

Janice Porter:

made the made the difference. So I don't always experience that

Janice Porter:

All right, so

Janice Porter:

I'm just looking okay. So your work often blends color

Janice Porter:

intuition and spirituality, which I've heard you talk in all

Janice Porter:

of that. How do these elements come together when you create a

Janice Porter:

piece of art? Are you the only one that knows what that piece

Janice Porter:

of art is or right?

Heather Eck:

No, you know, what is so funny about my work is

Heather Eck:

that I, you know, for a long time before I was thinking about

Heather Eck:

trying to put together an exhibition of any kind, I went

Heather Eck:

to France for two weeks at the beginning of January last year,

Heather Eck:

and I came back and I thought, Oh my gosh. I just started to

Heather Eck:

put together the thought around an exhibition, because it felt

Heather Eck:

like I was building a collection of pieces that were all centered

Heather Eck:

around a specific theme. Prior to that, I would just make a

Heather Eck:

piece and note there would be no pieces that looked alike. They

Heather Eck:

were all very different. And I used to say, Oh, these are just

Heather Eck:

commissions for people I haven't met yet. And I had a

Heather Eck:

photographer come over to take some pictures in the studio, and

Heather Eck:

I was going to do one of those spin around things, and I pulled

Heather Eck:

the piece, and I showed it to her, and she looked at it, and

Heather Eck:

she instantly broke into tears. And I was like, Oh my gosh. And

Heather Eck:

she goes, That's me. That's, I'm, that's my painting. And I

Heather Eck:

have, I've had people cry when they've seen their pieces

Heather Eck:

before, but I I've never had somebody go, oh, that's mine.

Janice Porter:

That's and I did you shiver? Did you something

Janice Porter:

physical happened to you?

Heather Eck:

Yeah, yeah, because I think that it is. There's some

Heather Eck:

aspect of your soul that recognizes you in the painting,

Heather Eck:

whether that's through color or the symbol or what have you. I

Heather Eck:

think that there's something it's like when you hear a song

Heather Eck:

and you are moved by the strings or those chords that just give

Heather Eck:

you the chills, and you're like, Oh, this is my song. I think

Heather Eck:

that that happens with artwork. And I've had people, my one

Heather Eck:

really dear friend, I had her over to the house, and I had all

Heather Eck:

these pieces lined up on the wall, and hers was in was in

Heather Eck:

there. And I said, um, your painting is over there. Do you

Heather Eck:

think that you can find it? And she went and picked every single

Heather Eck:

piece up, and she touched it, and she held it, and she and she

Heather Eck:

skipped right over hers. And then, and she goes, I don't know

Heather Eck:

which one is mine. And I was, I said, the one that you blatantly

Heather Eck:

ignored. And we laughed about it, because at the core message

Heather Eck:

of that painting was about reflection, and it was about

Heather Eck:

seeing yourself as God sees you. And she was, at the time,

Heather Eck:

unwilling to accept that part of herself, and so her spirit

Heather Eck:

skipped there. Sure, so it that's an interesting thing. I

Heather Eck:

think that there are times where I can explain, oh, well, this

Heather Eck:

color represents that in this. And if you look at there's a

Heather Eck:

symbol here, and that means this, which I can do. But I also

Heather Eck:

think that there are something about pieces that you will pick

Heather Eck:

up on if it's meant for you.

Janice Porter:

Yeah, that's fast. Fascinating to me. Okay,

Janice Porter:

many of my listeners are business professionals. How can

Janice Porter:

being more aware of energy and intuition improve the way we

Janice Porter:

build relationships at work?

Heather Eck:

That is such a great question. I love that. So

Heather Eck:

I think we intuitively know a lot more than we give ourselves

Heather Eck:

credit for. And if you kind of like we talked about, just give

Heather Eck:

yourself a minute before a meeting, before you walk into a

Heather Eck:

room, to just sort of take a breath and ask yourself what

Heather Eck:

sensations or feelings or temperatures or whatever that

Heather Eck:

you feel in your body, because they are sending a signal to you

Heather Eck:

about something. You know, when you say, like, Oh, I just got

Heather Eck:

this gut feeling, or my gut wrenched or something that is

Heather Eck:

really your intuition firing and telling you to pay close

Heather Eck:

attention. And I ignored that for a really, really long time.

Heather Eck:

And I think a lot of us do. It's like when you can give yourself

Heather Eck:

space to feel your most of the time. You can navigate the world

Heather Eck:

simply by how you feel about something, whether you are

Heather Eck:

feeling expansive and excited and open, that seems to be a

Heather Eck:

good thing to follow. It feels tight or restrictive, or you're

Heather Eck:

like, Oh, I got a little bit of a twinge here. That's generally

Heather Eck:

a sign to say, like, not so much.

Janice Porter:

I think, I think that I feel, that's how I

Janice Porter:

operate, I think, a lot of the time and and it may be that you

Janice Porter:

can't do anything about it at the moment, you you know, if you

Janice Porter:

feel like, Oh, my God, this is not where I should be, or

Janice Porter:

whatever there's and it's too late to do that, but to change

Janice Porter:

it, but it does color. It does color how you are in that

Janice Porter:

situation. And, yeah, sometimes for me, that feels like I don't

Janice Porter:

know what to say as easily or I'm, you know, I it just feels

Janice Porter:

totally uncomfortable, yeah, and if I know that that this is

Janice Porter:

where I should be, then I can be more open and more comfortable

Janice Porter:

and have more fun doing it for sure.

Heather Eck:

Yeah, I think that that is a skill that you can

Heather Eck:

strengthen, or a muscle that you can strengthen,

Janice Porter:

but, but you can't, you can't, you can't be

Janice Porter:

more authentic, like that. See, like, well, authenticity, it's

Janice Porter:

a, it's a, an absolute, I think, right, right? So, yeah, so if

Janice Porter:

you're not being authentic, it's being led by those those

Janice Porter:

feelings or those messages that you're getting that that says,

Janice Porter:

No, this isn't right for you, but there's nothing you can do

Janice Porter:

about it at the time, so you have to muddle through it.

Heather Eck:

Yeah, I agree. I What? What just came up for me.

Heather Eck:

Then when you said that, is that like, if you are spending all

Heather Eck:

day sort of telling all these little lies to yourself about

Heather Eck:

how you feel, then you're not being authentic, because there's

Heather Eck:

a truth that's not being expressed, and a lot of times

Heather Eck:

that you are blocking the truth of what your body, your spirit,

Heather Eck:

is trying to convey to you, and and that causes pain, and it

Heather Eck:

causes anxiety and it causes dis ease in the body when you're not

Heather Eck:

being authentic.

Janice Porter:

Yeah, beautiful. It's true. Have you ever had a

Janice Porter:

moment where the colors that you sensed about a person revealed

Janice Porter:

something surprising or meaningful about them? I'm sure

Janice Porter:

you have many of those, but I'm

Heather Eck:

Yeah, there was one story that I always go back to

Heather Eck:

with this woman that I met who I felt blue all around her. I

Heather Eck:

mentioned the color blue before. We're just talking about truth,

Heather Eck:

which I think if we go back to that, how can you use energy and

Heather Eck:

intuition at work? You can use color to help support you at

Heather Eck:

work, too. In relationships, if you know you're going into a

Heather Eck:

room with somebody who really grates on your nerves and you

Heather Eck:

get stressed or anxious going in, you can wear blue for

Heather Eck:

yourself and for that other person, because it will

Heather Eck:

instantly soothe and calm them down. Lowers the blood pressure

Heather Eck:

and it it soothes the energy of the space, so you can always

Heather Eck:

lean on color for certain situations or relationships if

Heather Eck:

you need a little bit of extra support there.

Janice Porter:

So over the years, I mean, I'm sure I've

Janice Porter:

taken at least four or five different personality type

Janice Porter:

quizzes or whatever. And, you know, between disc and and the

Janice Porter:

color theory one and, and there's some, there's a whole

Janice Porter:

bunch of them. I can't even remember, but they all have

Janice Porter:

colors associated most of them have colors associated with

Janice Porter:

them. And like I think of the color one. In particular,

Janice Porter:

because I remember, I was in corporate at the time, and we I

Janice Porter:

was in a training department, and we were customer trainers

Janice Porter:

that would go to clients, and we would do training. And most of

Janice Porter:

us, when this person came in to do the training with us, most of

Janice Porter:

us were the same color, because we're all trainers, right,

Janice Porter:

right? But, but I think of how instilled in me some of those

Janice Porter:

basic colors are when you think of and tell me how different it

Janice Porter:

really is in your world of synesthesia. So red is power.

Janice Porter:

Red is extrovert. Red is, you know, they're stand up and

Janice Porter:

they'll speak in front of a room. Blue is the the the, I

Janice Porter:

think they've got some heartfelt in them. They're they're

Janice Porter:

emotion, they're nurturers. And those kind of people, green are

Janice Porter:

the analysts and the engineers and the the the project over

Janice Porter:

people, kind of people. And the fourth color, I think, was

Janice Porter:

orange in this particular thing. And orange, I can't remember,

Janice Porter:

because it's so removed from me, I think. But there's so so in

Janice Porter:

other words, I have sort of mental thoughts around those

Janice Porter:

colors for the different personality types is that

Janice Porter:

completely like, washed away and completely different in your

Janice Porter:

world,

Heather Eck:

there are some similarities there. And I think

Heather Eck:

because if you, if you look at, like, Color Psychology, there's

Heather Eck:

and color theory, I think that there's a lot that overlaps

Heather Eck:

there. So for example, the red is somebody who's being strong

Heather Eck:

and powerful. Yes, that aligns very much with the root, which

Heather Eck:

is all about strength, stability, financial, security

Heather Eck:

and power. So that one feels really closely aligned. Blue, I

Heather Eck:

would say, is, is a nurturing color in that. I think it

Heather Eck:

supports calm, tranquility, peace. They're probably the

Heather Eck:

peacekeepers. Trust, just trust, rust, authenticity, yeah. And if

Heather Eck:

you look at like, different brand logos and things like

Heather Eck:

that, you'll find, you know, American Express is blue,

Heather Eck:

McDonald's is red and yellow, you know? So you look at the

Heather Eck:

differences there, you can kind of start to think about why

Heather Eck:

those colors become pervasive for people. Yeah, was the other

Heather Eck:

color you mentioned. Were the green and orange, green

Heather Eck:

engineers and the So, green analysts, yeah, the analysts,

Heather Eck:

yeah. So I would say that's more of a gray to me, because those

Heather Eck:

folks tend to be more neutral in in decision making, and they

Heather Eck:

tend to be the people who don't really want to rock the boat,

Heather Eck:

but sort of stick to the facts. It's a little bit of a black,

Heather Eck:

which is about protection, sophistication and and privacy,

Heather Eck:

and then White, which is all about, like, clarity, clear

Heather Eck:

slate. So like bringing those two together, and then orange is

Heather Eck:

typically a color of strong emotion, expression,

Heather Eck:

relationships, sexuality, creativity. So, yeah,

Janice Porter:

yeah, yeah, for sure, yeah. So for someone who

Janice Porter:

feels disconnected from their intuition. What are some simple

Janice Porter:

ways that they can become more in tune with intuition?

Heather Eck:

This is going to sound really simple, but just

Heather Eck:

put the phone away for a little bit. Get away from a screen and

Heather Eck:

be alone with your thoughts for a little bit, and just allow

Heather Eck:

yourself to be to just allow yourself to listen to what's

Heather Eck:

going on inside your brain, and not saying you have to respond

Heather Eck:

to it, and certainly, please don't judge it, but just allow

Heather Eck:

those thoughts to become smoother, clearer, so you can

Heather Eck:

hear what's going on for you. And then I think, start to

Heather Eck:

practice it. And I say, practice, not test it. But like,

Heather Eck:

practice it. Where you can say, My son and I went through a

Heather Eck:

drive through a couple of weeks ago, and he was going to get, I

Heather Eck:

think it was like, socks or something. And I said, Larry,

Heather Eck:

let's play. What color socks are you going to get today? And he

Heather Eck:

said, I'm going to get blue. And I was like, I think you're going

Heather Eck:

to get blue too. And then when we opened the box, he had blue

Heather Eck:

socks. And I was like, awesome. So it's just sort of like

Heather Eck:

learning to play and trust yourself to kind of dig into

Heather Eck:

something. You could say, like, I wonder what song's going to

Heather Eck:

come on next, or I wonder who's going to call me today, and just

Heather Eck:

sort of ask, like, start to tune in a little bit more. Meditation

Heather Eck:

is always a way to just calm the mind so you can hear more

Heather Eck:

clearly. And then, of course, I'm a big fan of journaling. If

Heather Eck:

you can just take, you know, five minutes a day, and just

Heather Eck:

even if you're not writing words, just scribble, but

Heather Eck:

thematically, move those thoughts out onto paper, and

Heather Eck:

that'll help to clear the clutter a little bit.

Janice Porter:

Those are all good ideas, amazing. Interesting

Janice Porter:

last question on this, if there's one insight you hope

Janice Porter:

listeners take away about understanding people

Janice Porter:

differently, what would that be?

Heather Eck:

Oh my gosh. I think, I think for me, I always

Heather Eck:

try to approach people with compassion. And I think that

Heather Eck:

everybody's going through something. You know, every

Heather Eck:

people will ask, Is my aura black? Do you see? Is my or and

Heather Eck:

I'm like, No, it's not like, you're fine. Everything's okay.

Heather Eck:

But I think that we're all going through something, every single

Heather Eck:

one of us, and and we reflect what we're going through in the

Heather Eck:

conversations we have in the colors that we choose to wear,

Heather Eck:

in the way that we respond to people. And so I'd say, just be

Heather Eck:

compassionate with yourself, and give yourself grace, and then be

Heather Eck:

compassionate with other people, because everybody's going

Heather Eck:

through something

Janice Porter:

so true, especially today in this world,

Janice Porter:

my granddaughter, who's six and a half, she has everything had

Janice Porter:

to be purple for like, the first five years, and even

Janice Porter:

everything's purple. And she loves purple. And just the other

Janice Porter:

day, she said to me, I think I like yellow, grandma, and I'm

Janice Porter:

like yellow that doesn't match with anything purple. What do

Janice Porter:

you mean? She said, I think yellow is my new favorite color,

Janice Porter:

and purple second. And she threw me for a loop, yeah. Oh, I love

Janice Porter:

it, I know, but we haven't got so that we have to buy

Janice Porter:

everything yellow yet, but we'll see.

Heather Eck:

Well, what's really fun about that is so purple is

Heather Eck:

the color of the crown Energy Center, which is about our

Heather Eck:

connection to God, to our higher selves and the divine. And so a

Heather Eck:

lot of times that was my favorite color when I was a kid,

Heather Eck:

too, because we come in and we're still connected, you know,

Heather Eck:

we're still we still have all that intuition. It's still

Heather Eck:

there. We haven't, we haven't pushed it away.

Janice Porter:

And I said she was an old soul, so that

Janice Porter:

probably Yeah, probably

Heather Eck:

Yeah, and yellow and purple are complementary, so

Heather Eck:

they go together really well, and it's kind of cool.

Janice Porter:

But I don't like yellow. See, we went through

Janice Porter:

that at the beginning. Now that I think about it, yeah, yeah.

Janice Porter:

Just thought that was interesting. And I do notice

Janice Porter:

silly things like that. It's kind of fun, so I'll keep it on

Janice Porter:

what happens with the yellow please do Yeah, so I could go on

Janice Porter:

and on with this stuff. It's really fascinating to me and

Janice Porter:

interesting. Let me ask you one last question about your work,

Janice Porter:

though. Who, who do you love to work with? You know, if my

Janice Porter:

listeners are intrigued by the work that you do, how can they

Janice Porter:

find you and who do you you know, who is your target

Janice Porter:

audience? Because, I mean, we're in business, we need to know

Janice Porter:

these things too.

Heather Eck:

Yeah. So you can find me online, on Instagram. I

Heather Eck:

met Heather Eric artist, and if you actually, if you are

Heather Eck:

interested in learning more, you can DM me the word color, and

Heather Eck:

I'll know that you heard me on your show.

Janice Porter:

And Canadian or American? No, just kidding. Oh,

Janice Porter:

great question,

Heather Eck:

C, O, L, O, R, however you want to spell it,

Heather Eck:

yeah, okay.

Heather Eck:

Say, I love to work with people who are me five years ago.

Heather Eck:

They're, they're the ones who are, you know, sitting on the on

Heather Eck:

the on the they're sitting at the crossroads of trying to

Heather Eck:

figure out what is next for them, and they're a little bit

Heather Eck:

stuck, or a lot of it stuck, and they just don't quite know.

Heather Eck:

They've lost touch with their intuition. They know that

Heather Eck:

there's something bigger and more purposeful for them, and

Heather Eck:

they just haven't gotten there yet. And I think that's what the

Heather Eck:

color reading can help you with, is helping you figure out what's

Heather Eck:

keeping you stuck, and then working through this sort of

Heather Eck:

spiritual, therapeutic art to help you uncover it.

Janice Porter:

That's very cool. Thank you. Yeah. Thank you.

Janice Porter:

Fascinating. Looking at how seeing people about seeing

Janice Porter:

people and relationships through a different lens your

Janice Porter:

perspective reminds us that connection goes far beyond words

Janice Porter:

and logic. Thanks for sharing your experiences and helping us

Janice Porter:

think about intuition, creativity and relationships in

Janice Porter:

a different way. For those listening, be sure to connect

Janice Porter:

with Heather and explore her work to learn more about the

Janice Porter:

power of color and intuition. And as I started to I think it's

Janice Porter:

interesting to look into the power and the the meaning behind

Janice Porter:

synesthesia, because I think it's definitely a gift, and I

Janice Porter:

think it's it's a very interesting thing to explore,

Janice Porter:

and I will be doing that a little bit further. So thank you

Janice Porter:

again, Heather, for your time and for your wisdom. Thank you

Janice Porter:

so much.

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I began my career as a teacher, was a corporate trainer for many years, and have now found my niche in coaching business owners to network at a world-class level.
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