Episode 306

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15th Apr 2025

Finding Your Voice: The Art of Writing Copy That Feels Like You | RR306

Some writers make magic with words—and copywriter and content strategist, Annette Mashi is one of them. I sit down with Annette to talk all things storytelling, learning your voice, and authentic messaging. Annette shares how she helps business owners sound like themselves in their marketing, whether it's through email sequences, blogs, or brand messaging. We get into the power of writing in your own voice, how to make your copy feel personal instead of salesy, and why storytelling builds stronger business relationships.

Annette doesn’t hold back on the behind-the-scenes of her creative process—from helping clients find the right words, to crafting content that resonates and actually gets read. If writing your own content feels like a chore or a mystery, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to get started.

Highlights:

  • Tips for finding and writing in your authentic voice—even if you’re not a “writer.”
  • The simple copywriting shift that makes emails feel like conversations, not pitches.
  • Why storytelling is one of the most powerful tools in building trust and connection.
  • How to turn inspiration from everyday life into relatable, engaging content.
  • What makes a welcome email sequence work—and how to create one that builds lasting relationships.

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Website: https://www.writewizards.com/

LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/annettemashi 

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Transcript
Janice Porter:

Annette, hello everybody, and welcome to this

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week's episode of relationships rule. Today we're going to dig

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into the power of authentic copywriting, how to make your

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words feel natural, connect with your audience and ultimately

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build trust. My guest, Annette Mashi is a talented copywriter

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and content strategist who helps business coaches, consultants

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and designers craft messaging that truly sounds like them.

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We'll explore how she captures her clients, voices, how great

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copy fosters meaningful business relationships, and why

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authenticity is key in marketing. So let's get into the

Janice Porter:

show. Welcome Annette. Oh Janice. I

Annette Mashi:

am so happy to be here. You've had so many, so

Annette Mashi:

many episodes, and I've listened to so many of them. You're in my

Annette Mashi:

ears a lot in the morning when I when I exercise, so I'm thrilled

Annette Mashi:

to Well, thank you. Thank you.

Janice Porter:

I love that. The thing I love the most is that we

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met on LinkedIn, and we have over a period of time, and to

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your credit for being consistent and keeping me to it, because

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sometimes I fall off the wagon, we have developed a lovely

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friendship based on consistent calls on zoom over the last

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several months or year. Now, I don't know how long. I think

Janice Porter:

it's been about a year at least. Yeah, two marriages in your

Janice Porter:

family. I know two weddings. Yeah, so, so this is really

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special to have you as a guest on the show. So let's sort of

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start with, let's back up a little bit and and ask you what

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first drew you to the world of copywriting and content

Janice Porter:

strategies and writing, period? Yeah,

Annette Mashi:

so I think that my first memory of like,

Annette Mashi:

creating magic with words was when I was helping my 16 year

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old sister get her first job. You know, when you're 16 years

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old, and you don't have and you don't have anything to write on

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your resume, you have to, like, come up with stuff to put there,

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because otherwise it's just one big blank page. And so I said

Annette Mashi:

that she was a beverage coordinator.

Janice Porter:

Oh, a beverage coordinator, a

Annette Mashi:

beverage coordinator. But what? What she

Annette Mashi:

did was she worked at McDonald's, and she asked you if

Annette Mashi:

you wanted coke Sprite or orange soda. I love it, and I expanded

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it into beverage coordinator, so made her sound important. Then

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when I started working, when I was working with Intel, what I

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used to do there was I would help them with their yearly

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reviews. I would help all my co workers with their yearly

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reviews. So instead of saying, I did this or I did that, all of a

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sudden they implemented, they optimized, they strata,

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strategized. Is that even a word, they streamlined, and I

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would pump up their titles and pump up the words that they were

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using in their so that they would sound more, you know, more

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important Sure, still the stuff that they were doing, but it's

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by using different words, it really helped them, and then

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they could advance in their careers. And I just carried

Annette Mashi:

writing all the way through, from presentations and training

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manuals. And so when I finally decided to escape from corporate

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America, I say escape because I really did escape. When I

Annette Mashi:

finally decided to escape. I realized that writing was the

Annette Mashi:

consistency that I had all throughout all the years.

Janice Porter:

So when you were a child, were you an avid

Janice Porter:

reader?

Annette Mashi:

I don't think so. I mean, I did read books. Yeah,

Annette Mashi:

surprisingly, I did read books. Definitely for the library, I

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used to get your card stamped if you read so many in so many

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books. I remember meeting like rich man, poor man or something,

Annette Mashi:

and it was so I read. I definitely read. I definitely

Annette Mashi:

read a lot of books. I mean, not a lot of books, but

Janice Porter:

I did read. Did you write in a diary where you

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were consistent diary writers?

Annette Mashi:

Not a consistent diary writer. And I was awful at

Annette Mashi:

grammar. Oh, yeah, grammar. And I was awful grammar was okay.

Annette Mashi:

Actually, I was awful at spelling. I couldn't see

Janice Porter:

both of those. I'm a grammar nerd and a

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spelling nerd. I i correct spellings on things that I see

Janice Porter:

in the, you know, on walls in the stores and things like that.

Janice Porter:

Yeah, that but, but that's interesting, because so I'm a

Janice Porter:

Virgo and I'm, like, detail oriented, and those kinds of

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things drive me crazy. But writing, come are you Virgo,

Janice Porter:

too? Did I know I am?

Annette Mashi:

No, I did not know that. Look at this, okay,

Annette Mashi:

but

Janice Porter:

you had the knack to write. I don't. I just

Janice Porter:

struggle with the writing part, the flow and the the you know,

Janice Porter:

to make it sound poetic. I mean, you do a great job of that, and

Janice Porter:

it fascinates me, because you were really good at sort of

Janice Porter:

themes and and make it like your website. It you your website is

Janice Porter:

right with right wizards,

Annette Mashi:

right wizards, yeah, yeah.

Janice Porter:

About. Magic, and the branding is perfect. So

Janice Porter:

yeah, it's I always think people who are good writers were

Janice Porter:

probably avid readers. So there goes that theory. No, no, okay.

Janice Porter:

Okay. Well, my next question really started to talk about is

Janice Porter:

you have a real talent for making copy sound like the

Janice Porter:

person that writing it. So you do find somebody's voice. So

Janice Porter:

what's your process for finding and capturing a client's unique

Janice Porter:

voice?

Annette Mashi:

Think it starts with listening. You're listening

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to what other people are saying. I'm listening to the words that

Annette Mashi:

people are using. There's an interior designer who might talk

Annette Mashi:

about creating your soul space, which is very different than

Annette Mashi:

some right that that puts a picture in your mind the kind of

Annette Mashi:

space that they're creating, where somebody else is talking

Annette Mashi:

about comfortable elegance. And so you have two different

Annette Mashi:

images, and they're two different designers, and they

Annette Mashi:

create two different spaces for two different types of clients.

Annette Mashi:

And so it's really listening to the words that they're using.

Annette Mashi:

It's also it would sound funny if somebody said, If, some if a

Annette Mashi:

lawyer would start emails by saying how they unless, of

Annette Mashi:

course, of course, they were in Texas, yeah. And then it would

Annette Mashi:

make perfect sense. So all of that depends on who you are and

Annette Mashi:

and your voice, and where you're located, and who your audience

Annette Mashi:

is, the way that you're talking, so

Janice Porter:

you're asking questions, you're listening,

Janice Porter:

you're forming a feeling, and you're getting a sense of

Janice Porter:

somebody quite quickly that probably starts to bring those

Janice Porter:

images to your mind that would work for that person. Have you

Janice Porter:

ever been like completely off?

Annette Mashi:

I think I've, I've worked with somebody where

Annette Mashi:

I told them to tone it down, like to tone it down. There they

Annette Mashi:

were. We want to go there with so I worked with, it's okay. No,

Annette Mashi:

I worked with, I work with people who were creating a

Annette Mashi:

course to expose the Islamic Jihad, okay? And so they talked

Annette Mashi:

about annihilating the Islamic Jihad, and I said, Well, we

Annette Mashi:

don't really want to use the word annihilate. I'm not sure

Annette Mashi:

how that works in marketing. Yeah, yeah. I mean, I was trying

Annette Mashi:

to be nice. You can expose them and you can safeguard humanity

Annette Mashi:

like that. That's a kinder way of saying like annihilating

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people. Because, you know, we really are supposed to be like

Annette Mashi:

humanity. And yes, we are. We're human race, and we do try to be

Annette Mashi:

kind to each other. And so he just said he wanted stronger

Annette Mashi:

language. So in that sense, I wasn't totally off, but I was

Annette Mashi:

trying to pull it back. I don't know if it was like a male, a

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male female sort of thing that he would go annihilate or or I

Annette Mashi:

would, but we ended up with exposing and they said that that

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it wasn't they wanted to really, really, really create that

Annette Mashi:

strong image of like taking control. And I said, you know,

Annette Mashi:

wasn't really my thing. So they said I was a little off with the

Annette Mashi:

voice, but they can, they can tweak it. I mean, that's even if

Annette Mashi:

you're off, there you go back. That's part of the copywriting

Annette Mashi:

process. I might use a different word than what the person really

Annette Mashi:

wants to use,

Janice Porter:

right, right? And I have to say that, that in the

Janice Porter:

work that I do these days, I am writing with people when I'm

Janice Porter:

doing their LinkedIn, mostly their about section, but writing

Janice Porter:

their profiles with them and and I may get a sense of what I

Janice Porter:

think they should say, but I absolutely want them to put it

Janice Porter:

in their own voice and and go from there. And that's kind of

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been an interesting process for me, because I'm not far off

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usually with people. So I guess, you know, I've learned a little

Janice Porter:

bit along the way about writing in that sense, what would you

Janice Porter:

say are the biggest mistakes people make when trying to write

Janice Porter:

in their own voice?

Annette Mashi:

I think that you're so close to the text that

Annette Mashi:

you really don't even realize it. I often tell people that

Annette Mashi:

you're inside the pickle jar and you can't read the label. I love

Annette Mashi:

that. Yeah, you can, and it's always good to get that second

Annette Mashi:

opinion. And that's even the two of us as we collaborate, like,

Annette Mashi:

what do you think? And that's where you have a coach, or you

Annette Mashi:

have a consultant, or you have a best buddy that they can look at

Annette Mashi:

it from an outside point of view and then give you feedback to

Annette Mashi:

see if, if you're really resonating with with yourself

Annette Mashi:

and with the people that you're writing

Janice Porter:

for. That makes sense. That totally makes sense,

Janice Porter:

all right, how does authenticity in copywriting help build

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stronger relationships with your audience or with potential

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clients? I mean,

Annette Mashi:

nobody really wants to fake it. If you're

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faking it, it doesn't it doesn't work. It doesn't connect, it

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doesn't resonate. And so you have to speak your truth. You

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write what's in your heart. You put the emotions on the piece of

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paper. You try to put empathy in what you're writing so that you

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under. Understand where your clients are coming from, and you

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understand what their issues are, and you you realize what

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their issues are like. I hear you, I see you, and this is how

Annette Mashi:

I can help you. I A lot of times we're writing for clients that

Annette Mashi:

have been like ourselves in in the past, and how we've

Annette Mashi:

struggled with an issue, and how we've gone through the

Annette Mashi:

transformation, and how we've come out on the other side. And

Annette Mashi:

so I'm writing my experiences, and that's where storytelling

Annette Mashi:

comes in, because you're telling the story of what you did, how

Annette Mashi:

you went through it, and how you know you can help somebody else

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get over the hurdle.

Janice Porter:

I know the best, the things that I'm drawn to

Janice Porter:

when I get 40,000 emails in my inbox are the story ones are the

Janice Porter:

people. When people tell me a story, those are the things that

Janice Porter:

that attract me more than just all that content, you know, all

Janice Porter:

that stuff I don't want to read. So not everybody writes that

Janice Porter:

way, though, and not everybody wants to. Some are more, you

Janice Porter:

know, do you? Do you in your head? Do you have like,

Janice Porter:

categories of people and the type of writing? Like, I don't

Janice Porter:

know. I don't, I haven't thought about it this way before, but

Janice Porter:

you know, the storyteller versus what? Well,

Annette Mashi:

I always try to pull in a story, regardless of

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what it is. I really do, because I really think that the stories,

Annette Mashi:

we love stories, because always love stories. I mean, our

Annette Mashi:

Throughout history, people have told stories, yeah, so, I mean

Annette Mashi:

the story is what sells it. You're not going to remember

Annette Mashi:

necessarily the numbers and the facts right before the dates and

Annette Mashi:

the times, but you can remember that story, you know, it's

Annette Mashi:

funny, those connections.

Janice Porter:

I was, I was doing a, I was part of a

Janice Porter:

presentation yesterday that one of my clients was doing for his

Janice Porter:

clients and and it was to do with, we were introducing them

Janice Porter:

to send out cards, which you're familiar with. And he told, he

Janice Porter:

wanted me to tell a couple of stories and talk about, you

Janice Porter:

know, the power of sending cards and whatever. And I, I always

Janice Porter:

tell this one story. This story is now probably 20 years old,

Janice Porter:

but every and it's not very long, but, and it's about the

Janice Porter:

owner of our of Send Out Cards and a card that he sent, and the

Janice Porter:

experience that this person had. And it's to this day when I tell

Janice Porter:

that story, I still get goosebumps because it's so

Janice Porter:

powerful, and it's not very I've shortened it, obviously, over

Janice Porter:

the years, and then just give the gist of it. But when you

Janice Porter:

tell a story that really resonates. You can really tell

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and sometimes it's caused a hush, you know, in real life,

Janice Porter:

when I've told it, but those are the most powerful things. And

Janice Porter:

you're absolutely right. I think

Annette Mashi:

there's nothing that mentioned, yeah, there's

Annette Mashi:

nothing better than story. It's a connection, whether it's

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whether I'm talking about, you know, the an architect or

Annette Mashi:

designer, and how they make you feel in that room and and the

Annette Mashi:

joy that they have, and the children coming in, like your

Annette Mashi:

grandchildren coming in, and I can see your face lighting up,

Annette Mashi:

yeah, with the words like grandchildren, children and

Annette Mashi:

grandchildren, they're coming in, they're playing in the

Annette Mashi:

space. They're enjoying the room, they're running, they're

Annette Mashi:

jumping on the couch and things like that. And that paints a

Annette Mashi:

picture for people, yeah, and it's all white

Janice Porter:

furniture, and you're going, Oh, you're vague,

Janice Porter:

yeah,

Annette Mashi:

well, there's that too, yeah, a separate space

Annette Mashi:

so you have, like, a good, clean and person that's going to come

Annette Mashi:

and help you. So, yes, for sure, for sure, but it's, it's the,

Annette Mashi:

the whole idea of the picture and the story and the connection

Annette Mashi:

that totally helps people and totally and we use stories as

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lessons as well. Like I tell people. I remember my roommate.

Annette Mashi:

I had a roommate in college, and I would every time I would call

Annette Mashi:

her, which, you know, was whenever I felt like and I would

Annette Mashi:

call her and she would say, oh, it's about time you're calling

Annette Mashi:

me. And I was so put off by this.

Janice Porter:

My mother used to say that to me,

Annette Mashi:

there you go. And I'm thinking, why am I calling

Annette Mashi:

you? Yeah, like, I'm not going to comment. That's not a good

Annette Mashi:

relationship. And I tell people that's if you're sending emails,

Annette Mashi:

like, every once in a while that the person on the other end is

Annette Mashi:

like, oh, sorry, they're selling something. That's why they're

Annette Mashi:

sending an email. But if you're consistently sending those

Annette Mashi:

emails and connecting with the person and reaching out and

Annette Mashi:

building those relationships, DMS on LinkedIn, whatever it is,

Annette Mashi:

just to say, hey, thinking about you, those are the things that

Annette Mashi:

build the relationships. Those are the things that build

Annette Mashi:

connections. Those are the things that build the trust, and

Annette Mashi:

those are the things that we want to continue because we want

Annette Mashi:

we need that. We need that connection and the

Annette Mashi:

relationships, and you're

Janice Porter:

very good at that. And actually that leads

Janice Porter:

right into my next question. Because my question is about, I

Janice Porter:

know you do email marketing as well as you know content on on

Janice Porter:

social and content for all sorts of things. How? How does email

Janice Porter:

marketing play into relationship building, and what makes a

Janice Porter:

marketing email feel personal rather than salesy? So the

Janice Porter:

examples you gave were just about, you know, the the

Janice Porter:

conversation building emails, but now you do email marketing

Janice Porter:

like strategy for what an like a follow up to lead magnets, or

Janice Porter:

getting somebody on your list and that kind of thing. So what?

Janice Porter:

How does that play into relationship building? Because I

Janice Porter:

can't do that. I need someone to do that for me, because I know

Janice Porter:

have a follow up something,

Annette Mashi:

and that's okay. That's okay. I look at it as,

Annette Mashi:

like a first date, right? Okay, you you right. You're going to

Annette Mashi:

go on a first date. And when you go on the first date, it's like,

Annette Mashi:

hi, nice to meet you. And the next question out of your mouth

Annette Mashi:

is, will you marry me? I mean, that's like, a disconnect,

Annette Mashi:

right? Yeah, it's so funny. So you want to start, I always tell

Annette Mashi:

people you want to start with, like, having a landing page. So

Annette Mashi:

someplace you want to direct people to some location, right?

Annette Mashi:

You're sending them to the restaurant. Go to this

Annette Mashi:

restaurant at such and such a time, so you're sending them to

Annette Mashi:

your landing page. Once they go to the landing page, then you

Annette Mashi:

give them something for free. Hey, this is me. It's nice to

Annette Mashi:

meet you. Here's something of value that's your free being a

Annette Mashi:

lead magnet. And then after that, you want to send them a

Annette Mashi:

series of mail so that they get to know more about you. Thanks

Annette Mashi:

for downloading the information. Here's more valuable information

Annette Mashi:

in the next mail. Here, I understand your pain points.

Annette Mashi:

Let's talk about them. And each step along the way in this

Annette Mashi:

welcome sequence, you're welcoming somebody into your

Annette Mashi:

world, getting them to know a little bit more about you.

Annette Mashi:

Follow me on social media. Small asks, Hey, this is an article

Annette Mashi:

that might interest you or a video that you might want to

Annette Mashi:

tell a story. Sometimes, in that I do, I tell a story of how I

Annette Mashi:

helped somebody else with things that they're right, how a

Annette Mashi:

success story or client story, so that the person reading the

Annette Mashi:

mail can see how you help somebody else and identify and

Annette Mashi:

say, if they got the results for one person, they can get the

Annette Mashi:

results for the other person. Okay? And all of that is leading

Annette Mashi:

them to join, you know, to be part of your email list on a

Annette Mashi:

regular basis, where you can consistently nurture them.

Janice Porter:

Yes, okay, okay, and how many emails are sort of

Janice Porter:

the right number for a welcome sequence, and over what kind of

Janice Porter:

time?

Annette Mashi:

Yeah, I tried to do it like day by day by day. So

Annette Mashi:

this does the first the welcome sequence. I do day by day by

Annette Mashi:

day, because the idea is, you want to get somebody used to

Annette Mashi:

seeing your name in their inbox. Okay, you want to make sure that

Annette Mashi:

they're reading the mails that they're looking forward to. And

Annette Mashi:

I give a teaser at the end of the mail. Okay, look for

Annette Mashi:

tomorrow, when we're going to do the next one and things like

Annette Mashi:

that. Okay, it also gets them to move. You want to try to get

Annette Mashi:

them to move your mail from the promotions. You know, sometimes

Annette Mashi:

they go to tabs and they get lost. You know, look for it.

Annette Mashi:

Move it from spam to my regular inbox, the primary inbox, and

Annette Mashi:

things like that. So you're kind of conditioning somebody to see

Annette Mashi:

your name in their inbox and in and email marketing. Just, I

Annette Mashi:

have my stats here. The email marketing is 40 times more

Annette Mashi:

effective than social media, 40 times.

Janice Porter:

Wow. That's a lot. That is a lot. I understand

Janice Porter:

the concept of, you know, social media content being more

Janice Porter:

passive, and you never know who's going to see it, because

Janice Porter:

right the inconsistencies in people checking their emails or

Janice Porter:

sorry, checking their their news, right there and so on,

Janice Porter:

yeah and and the algorithms that that show or don't show that

Janice Porter:

information To you, but 40 times

Annette Mashi:

yes the message, yeah, and it's, it's 40 times

Annette Mashi:

more effective in getting new customers and five times more

Annette Mashi:

likely to be seen than Facebook. That five times, right? That

Annette Mashi:

part, right? Because it's going directly to you. That's the five

Annette Mashi:

times before.

Janice Porter:

But I get so many emails every day I don't read

Janice Porter:

them all. So what's going to make me open it? Who it's

Annette Mashi:

from? That's your relationships. That's why the

Annette Mashi:

relationships rule, because you have somebody who's going to

Annette Mashi:

give you that information on a you. They're they're going to

Annette Mashi:

show up. You're going to see value in what they're sending

Annette Mashi:

you. You're going to want to read their stories. You're going

Annette Mashi:

to want to follow them, you're going to build their trust.

Annette Mashi:

You're going to learn about them. They're going to send you

Annette Mashi:

information on a regular basis. I send, I send mails weekly. I

Annette Mashi:

mean, there are people that send stuff daily. There's people that

Annette Mashi:

send stuff three times a week, five times a week. I mean, too

Annette Mashi:

much on. It depends on on what you're doing. But I'm sending

Annette Mashi:

every week. I send. And something to my to my email list

Annette Mashi:

to let them know, Hey, I'm thinking about you, and some

Annette Mashi:

story and some antics. And this week, I just sent out about

Annette Mashi:

about my daughter's wedding. Yeah, I saw

Janice Porter:

it. I haven't read it yet. So there you go.

Annette Mashi:

So there you go. But you will, because, yeah,

Annette Mashi:

yeah, of course, of course, right.

Janice Porter:

So, and then I had a whatever crisis this week,

Janice Porter:

because yesterday I was supposed to today, my newsletter was

Janice Porter:

supposed to go out, and I had no inspiration yesterday, and I

Janice Porter:

haven't written it yet. So I was like, don't beat myself up. So

Janice Porter:

it's okay, because people don't even notice if you miss a week.

Janice Porter:

But in my head, it was like, you know, I didn't want to do that,

Janice Porter:

because I try to be, you know, consistent, but when you but

Janice Porter:

when you're not inspired, or you can't think of something that's

Annette Mashi:

hard, does that ever happen? Yeah, it does. I

Annette Mashi:

mean, that's, you know, why we have AI and chat GPT, and

Annette Mashi:

sometimes I'll listen to podcasts, and it'll spark some

Annette Mashi:

inspiration that I'll get. It's not, you know, and I don't want

Annette Mashi:

to write, and my daughter's got hired, I don't want to write a

Annette Mashi:

million mails about my daughter's weddings. I mean,

Annette Mashi:

very nice to include some pictures and things, but, you

Annette Mashi:

know, we don't always want to do that, and we're, you know,

Annette Mashi:

writing emails for work, but a lot of it is, first of all,

Annette Mashi:

don't beat yourself up. If you miss a week. You miss a week,

Annette Mashi:

it's okay. I mean, like you said, nobody's going to notice

Annette Mashi:

if you but try to be consistent. So don't miss and I do, and I do

Annette Mashi:

try four weeks, right? But, yeah, I gained inspiration from,

Annette Mashi:

from anywhere, from from my dog. I tell people like, I, you know

Annette Mashi:

my dog, even I put on my sneakers and and he's like,

Annette Mashi:

ready to go. It's his call to action. I call it his call to

Annette Mashi:

action for a walk. So inspiration about that. Hey,

Annette Mashi:

think about calls to action. Your pets are giving you calls

Annette Mashi:

to action. Kids are great inspiration. Stories from the

Annette Mashi:

past, anything days of the week can can spark something. So,

Annette Mashi:

yeah, there's, there's lots of places that I

Janice Porter:

pull true. You just have to stop long enough to

Janice Porter:

think about it, right,

Annette Mashi:

to let it in list. Well, keep a running list.

Annette Mashi:

Sometimes jot something down. Sometimes I'll make a note on my

Annette Mashi:

phone. Okay, found the exact I haven't found the method, yeah,

Annette Mashi:

and a lot of people do content creation, like they'll sit down

Annette Mashi:

one day and they'll write a whole bunch of emails or a whole

Annette Mashi:

bunch of posts that they'll batch the work, and then when

Annette Mashi:

they need it, then they'll go and they'll do it. Yes,

Janice Porter:

if someone is struggling to sound natural in

Janice Porter:

their writing, what should they do? Where should they start?

Annette Mashi:

Whenever I'm writing, I'm thinking of one

Annette Mashi:

specific person that I'm writing to. I'm thinking of the person

Annette Mashi:

that's going to be reading the letter, so whoever I'm writing

Annette Mashi:

to, like, this morning, when I was writing about the Disney the

Annette Mashi:

same way, yeah, yeah. I'm thinking of, I'm thinking of

Annette Mashi:

people like the some, somebody specific on my list that's like,

Annette Mashi:

going to be reading this and and like, laughing along with me at

Annette Mashi:

the antics about that, but yeah, think of your you don't have to

Annette Mashi:

write to the masses. You're writing to one specific person

Annette Mashi:

about one specific idea and one specific point.

Janice Porter:

So what's your favorite or ideal client? What

Janice Porter:

do you love to do the best?

Annette Mashi:

What do I love to do the best? I definitely like

Annette Mashi:

to tell the story. So I prefer, like the emails, writing emails

Annette Mashi:

and newsletters and blogs rather than writing website copy.

Annette Mashi:

Website copy has to be short, sweet to the point. You have to

Annette Mashi:

use the right words. It has to be clear, yeah, don't go for

Annette Mashi:

clever. You know, it is clever. People don't always get it,

Annette Mashi:

yeah, so it has to be really clear and to the point,

Janice Porter:

okay, fair enough. So the writing is

Janice Porter:

different in that. Writing's

Annette Mashi:

a little different in that sense. So,

Annette Mashi:

like, when you're writing, when you're writing a newsletter and

Annette Mashi:

things like that. I mean, I want to be careful. I don't want to

Annette Mashi:

use millions of words, because nobody wants to read millions of

Annette Mashi:

words, but, but I want to try to tell the story. Tell the story

Annette Mashi:

as as easily as possible and as succinctly as possible. I'll

Annette Mashi:

even use big words and use words normal words don't like, try to

Annette Mashi:

sound like you're, you know, an Oxford graduate, or anything

Annette Mashi:

like I'm using normal words.

Janice Porter:

So, so someone who wasn't big in spelling like

Janice Porter:

you meant, like you right, admitted to, do you? Do you

Janice Porter:

notice? Because I, for example, I have like, I have a few pet

Janice Porter:

peeves around words and words being used incorrectly, and

Janice Porter:

words like. You just mentioned you don't have to use big words.

Janice Porter:

So I think of and I don't even know if they're the exact same

Janice Porter:

meaning or not, but I they're often interchanged, and that is

Janice Porter:

the word use versus utilize, and I hate that word utilize, and

Janice Porter:

people use that word utilize all the time when why can't they

Janice Porter:

just use the smaller word. So I

Annette Mashi:

know so like things like that, you're trying,

Annette Mashi:

you know, you're writing to people. You're writing to people

Annette Mashi:

who don't have to be big, fancy words. People don't want that,

Annette Mashi:

and they don't want the jargon you you're writing, right

Annette Mashi:

somebody, and you never speak.

Janice Porter:

You're speaking my language. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

Janice Porter:

for

Annette Mashi:

sure, we have to communicate at the level that,

Annette Mashi:

yeah, with the words that people know. I mean, I was looking at

Annette Mashi:

something, they said it was somebody was writing about the

Annette Mashi:

house and the possibilities of your home. And I'm thinking, I

Annette Mashi:

don't know if anybody, like says, I really want to find out

Annette Mashi:

all of the possibilities I have in my home. Like, what is that

Annette Mashi:

like? I want, you know, want my home to be and the word, what

Annette Mashi:

did she use, the word livable. I want my home to be livable. And

Annette Mashi:

I thought, Okay, well, yes, I do want my home to be livable. But

Annette Mashi:

that's not really the the picture, the pinning my mind is

Annette Mashi:

that, like, it's queen, right? It's livable. That's

Janice Porter:

not the same. And I would say, to turn that house

Janice Porter:

into a home, I wouldn't call it. It's not a home until you make

Janice Porter:

it your home with different right? Yeah, with, with the

Janice Porter:

things

Annette Mashi:

that you love, and, yeah, the colors and the

Annette Mashi:

style and even that is is the same. And that's probably why I

Annette Mashi:

like working with creative people, because and the

Annette Mashi:

architects and interior designers, because that's

Annette Mashi:

they're they're creating the same way I'm writing that's

Annette Mashi:

personal for the person. They're creating spaces that are

Annette Mashi:

personal for the I would

Janice Porter:

think that you would be a good fit for a lot of

Janice Porter:

realtors, too, who have to write the copy for the ads that go out

Janice Porter:

for their properties. And that's a tiny little piece, I know, but

Janice Porter:

it has to be done properly, too. And I remember working with a

Janice Porter:

lot of realtors who they struggle with that, you know,

Janice Porter:

because they all sound the same. So you've got to make it sound,

Annette Mashi:

I don't know, right? But you also have to fit

Annette Mashi:

that right. You also have to fit in like, three bedrooms, two

Annette Mashi:

bathrooms, yeah, exactly, signs of action. So, yeah, it's not

Annette Mashi:

like a lot of creativity. No, no,

Janice Porter:

but, but still take some some expertise to do

Janice Porter:

it properly, and that's just a little piece for sure. Um, have

Janice Porter:

you ever written a book? Or do you have any desire to write a

Janice Porter:

book?

Annette Mashi:

Oh, I don't know if I want to admit this on No,

Annette Mashi:

okay, oh, no, I'll tell you. Um, I actually just, just put

Annette Mashi:

something together to be part of an and anthology, yeah,

Annette Mashi:

anthology, yeah, I just submitted to be have,

Janice Porter:

okay, that's exciting. I've done that,

Annette Mashi:

yeah, yeah, that's as far as I did that. So,

Annette Mashi:

yeah, it's great, yeah. So I'm looking forward to doing that.

Annette Mashi:

It's about resilience, and your a new journey for women

Annette Mashi:

entrepreneurs and so, so I'm, I'm very excited, and hopefully

Annette Mashi:

the it's supposed to come out in June. So alright, I better put

Annette Mashi:

paper to pen or pen to paper, yeah, pen to paper, yeah, or

Annette Mashi:

click on the keyboard. I gotta click on the keyboard so that I

Annette Mashi:

hit the deadline by Yeah. So

Janice Porter:

that's great. All right, I'm gonna digress for the

Janice Porter:

last little bit here and ask you my favorite question, because

Janice Porter:

I'm very curious, and I want to know what your take on Curiosity

Janice Porter:

is, would you say it's a two part question? Number one, okay,

Janice Porter:

and I'm sure you've heard this if you've listened to enough of

Janice Porter:

my podcast out. Number one, do you think curiosity is innate or

Janice Porter:

learned? And number two, what are you most curious about these

Janice Porter:

days. Okay, well,

Annette Mashi:

I'm gonna hope that it's learned, because I

Annette Mashi:

don't ever, I do not think that I was a curious child at all.

Annette Mashi:

Oh, I really don't think I was curious about anything. I don't

Annette Mashi:

think that I ever asked questions. I don't remember my

Annette Mashi:

mother ever saying because I said so, you know, like, yeah,

Annette Mashi:

why? Yeah, because I'm the mom, right? So I really don't

Annette Mashi:

remember, like, being curious and exploring and or anything

Annette Mashi:

like that. I mean, I was like, logical, scientific, step one,

Annette Mashi:

two, step three, you know, maybe that's part of the Virgo treats

Annette Mashi:

as well. It is, yeah, yes, right? So I don't think that I

Annette Mashi:

was curious about anything. You know, I kind of just like, took

Annette Mashi:

it for face value and that was it. What am I curious about

Annette Mashi:

right now? I guess I'm curious about the way the world is

Annette Mashi:

running. I'm curious about what people are thinking and maybe

Annette Mashi:

the the opinion. That they have like, sometimes I'll I'll watch

Annette Mashi:

the news and say, what are they thinking? I'm curious. I'm

Annette Mashi:

curious what's running through their the minds of, yeah, the

Annette Mashi:

powers that be to see what is going on, because it doesn't

Annette Mashi:

make any sense to me. And I guess that's what a lot of other

Annette Mashi:

people is about. Yeah, sure.

Janice Porter:

Okay, fair enough, not going there. No,

Janice Porter:

we're not going there today. And and would you say, so? Are you

Janice Porter:

well, you weren't a reader when you're a kid? Do you read books

Janice Porter:

now? Or do you listen to books, or do you watch movies? Or

Janice Porter:

what's your favorite form of relaxation content?

Annette Mashi:

Yeah, so definitely, well, I'd say I

Annette Mashi:

watch Netflix just for like, relaxation and stuff like that.

Annette Mashi:

Yeah, what am I watching now? Young Sheldon, oh, really,

Annette Mashi:

just to laugh and I've seen it through. Okay, okay, okay, yeah,

Annette Mashi:

The Big Bang Theory. I

Janice Porter:

mostly go to dramas. So,

Annette Mashi:

yeah, oh no, I watched all of suits I just

Annette Mashi:

finished. Oh, like,

Janice Porter:

yeah, that's over my drama. Don't watch the new

Janice Porter:

series. It's terrible, just terrible. The suits are late.

Annette Mashi:

Oh, it hasn't, it hasn't hit me yet. I mean, like

Annette Mashi:

it hasn't hit here yet, so I haven't seen but I do. I do

Annette Mashi:

read. I do try to read a lot of books, business books and things

Annette Mashi:

like that. I do. I'm reading right? What am I reading now?

Annette Mashi:

10x is easier than 2x Oh, that's so

Janice Porter:

funny that you said that. Are you reading it

Janice Porter:

too? No, but you're the third person that's mentioned that

Janice Porter:

book, so I have to get it.

Annette Mashi:

Well, you have to get it, yeah, and I have, and I

Annette Mashi:

look, I got the introverts guide, Oh, I love that book,

Annette Mashi:

right? Because you Yeah, because you said Matthew Pollard,

Annette Mashi:

really, it's very easy to read, and you'll love it because it's

Annette Mashi:

all stories. It's stories, right? It's stories, yeah, yeah.

Annette Mashi:

I mean the Donald Miller, the story brand Yes,

Janice Porter:

I read half of it. The second half, I think, is

Janice Porter:

doing the work. But I've interviewed a girl who's one of

Janice Porter:

the was one of the first story brand guides, and she's just

Janice Porter:

written a book, and actually she's coming back on my podcast,

Janice Porter:

but she mentioned something when I was listening to her podcast.

Janice Porter:

That's where I think I got I heard before what you said about

Janice Porter:

the bottle, the jar of pickles and being on the inside, she

Janice Porter:

talks about that too. She said it's something like being in a

Janice Porter:

it's like a bottle. If you're in the neck of the bottle, you

Janice Porter:

can't see what's on the outside. A similar analogy that you use,

Janice Porter:

so I knew I'd heard it somewhere. Yeah, yeah. So, so

Janice Porter:

you like to read. I get books sent to me all the time. I don't

Janice Porter:

have time to read them, and I just, I can't keep up, so I like

Janice Porter:

to just when I've worked, finished working all day, I just

Janice Porter:

like to veg in front of the TV and something that'll grab my

Janice Porter:

attention and knit. If I don't knit, I fall asleep, so I have

Janice Porter:

to knit. Yeah, all right, yeah. But this has been delightful, so

Janice Porter:

I love that that we got to finally do this. And I have one

Janice Porter:

last question for you, and the question really is, what's your

Janice Porter:

best piece of business advice you'd like to share with the

Janice Porter:

audience around what you do and how to make things easier.

Annette Mashi:

So I have two pieces of advice. One is just do

Annette Mashi:

it step out of your comfort zone, yeah? Nike, yeah. Or Nike,

Annette Mashi:

yeah, and, and they didn't get paid by the let by the word

Annette Mashi:

right, right, exactly, yeah, yeah. So definitely, just go out

Annette Mashi:

there and be brave. Do it? Put yourself out there that that's

Annette Mashi:

definitely one piece of advice, and another piece of advice is

Annette Mashi:

that Done is better than perfect. Yeah, I love that. That

Annette Mashi:

a lot of times we think that has to be perfect with all the i's

Annette Mashi:

dotted and T's crossed, but it's better to have something done

Annette Mashi:

than to wait around for perfection. And so they're,

Annette Mashi:

they're the two pieces of advice that I great

Janice Porter:

advice, great advice. And where can my

Janice Porter:

audience find you? Annette?

Annette Mashi:

And yeah, they can definitely find me on

Annette Mashi:

LinkedIn, our one of our favorite platforms, yes, our

Annette Mashi:

meeting place on LinkedIn, and there I have a wonderful freebie

Annette Mashi:

for anybody that wants to do it. Yeah, three steps to turn

Annette Mashi:

prospects into paying clients, and it's it's on your LinkedIn

Annette Mashi:

profile. At the top, it's on my LinkedIn file. At the top, they

Annette Mashi:

can click on it there. It's a featured thing,

Janice Porter:

but and you will give me the

Annette Mashi:

link if you don't already have it, yeah, for sure.

Janice Porter:

Sounds good. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you

Janice Porter:

for being here, and thank you to my audience. This was a great

Janice Porter:

conversation and lots to think about. Um. Um, much insight into

Janice Porter:

making copy feel real, personal and engaging. So if anyone's

Janice Porter:

looking to refine their brand voice and build stronger

Janice Porter:

relationships through content, they can find you and have a

Janice Porter:

conversation to get started. All right, thank you again, and

Janice Porter:

thank you to my audience. Remember, if you like what you

Janice Porter:

heard, please let us know by leaving a review and remember to

Janice Porter:

stay connected and be remembered. I.

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About the Podcast

Relationships Rule
It’s always about Relationships!
Imagine that 68% of our clients leave because they feel we don’t care. Then visualize having authentic heart-based retention strategies, proven to minimize client losses, while organically generating a substantial number of loyal clients through referrals.

Catch a glimpse of how Janice opens a conversation by applying her fine-tuned curiosity. Notice how genuinely interested she is in building a relationship with her guests – heart-based business owners and entrepreneurs. In mere minutes, guests generously share their most sweet and powerful retention systems that you can adopt today!

As a seasoned relationship marketing specialist, Janice invites us to listen in weekly, as she reveals how to nurture and build relationships in real-time.

The Relationships Rule podcast’s aim, is to help you naturally ease your networking fears, so you can adopt strategies that amplify your client list, because the facts are, that today, success is built on a foundation of strong relationships. You can relax now, knowing you can activate your relationship marketing plan, by simply tuning in to Relationships Rule each week.

About your host

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Janice Porter

I began my career as a teacher, was a corporate trainer for many years, and have now found my niche in coaching business owners to network at a world-class level.
My passion is working with motivated people, who are coachable and who want to build their businesses through relationship marketing and networking (offline & online). I help my clients create retention strategies, grow through referrals, and create loyal customers by staying connected.