Episode 307

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22nd Apr 2025

Jennifer Kaplan on Reputation, Relationships, and the Heart of PR | RR307

A strong reputation can grow your business faster than any ad—and a single bad impression can undo it just as quickly.

Jennifer Kaplan, founder of Evolve Public Relations, and I, talk about the true power of relationships in business. She shares why PR isn’t just about media buzz—it’s about staying visible, building trust, and showing up with integrity every step of the way. From dealing with a reputation crisis to creating a compelling brand narrative, Jennifer offers insights that are just as useful for entrepreneurs as they are for large organizations.

Jennifer shares why small businesses need to be especially mindful of how they’re seen, both online and in person, and how small gestures—like following up or owning your mistakes—can leave a lasting impact. We also dig into the evolving media landscape, the emotional power of good storytelling, and why curiosity might just be the secret to stronger connections.

Highlights:

  • Why small businesses need to protect and nurture their reputation with intention.
  • How to stay ahead of communication challenges before they turn into full-blown PR problems.
  • Ways to craft a clear, authentic brand message that actually connects with your audience.
  • The role of non-verbal communication in shaping how people see and remember your business.
  • Why building relationships—and maintaining them—is still the most powerful PR tool you have.


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Website: www.evolveprandmarketing.com

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Transcript
Janice Porter:

Jennifer, Hello everyone, and welcome to this

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week's episode of relationships rule. My guest today, Jennifer

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Kaplan is the founder and CEO of Evolve Public Relations and

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Marketing, a premier PR agency she established in 2010 to help

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businesses and professionals authentically tell their

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stories. She has a communications degree from

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Arizona State University and an entrepreneurial spirit I think

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runs in your family. From what I can understand, Jennifer has

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dedicated her career to elevating brands, building trust

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and fostering meaningful connections. So welcome to the

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show, Jennifer.

Jennifer Kaplan:

Thank you so much for having me. I'm excited

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to be with you.

Janice Porter:

Personal question, didn't check the the

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the Sweet 16, but ASU, they didn't. They're not in it this

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year, are they? No, you

Jennifer Kaplan:

don't want to get me started, because there's

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a school in Tucson that's our rivalry. Thumbs down for but

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since they're representing and it's Arizona, I might have to

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lean in a little bit that University of Arizona in Tucson.

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But got it? Yeah, it's a fun time. It's a fun time when the

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games start going and everyone gets into the rivalries.

Janice Porter:

Yeah, I'm sure. And me, Little old me up in

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Canada. You should see my husband. He's, like, checking

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his chart every day, like, we follow the NCAA, and he

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particularly, but we're basketball family, so that's one

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of the most exciting times. So I just sort of pick and choose,

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like, I like that name, or I've heard that team before, and then

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I see and then usually it works for me. So he gets mad, but

Janice Porter:

that's okay. It's all good, because there

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are so many upsets. That's why I know, I

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know no method to the madness.

Janice Porter:

I know there was almost one the other day that

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Colorado, Yukon, no Yukon, and Arizona, I think it was one of

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those, yeah, anyway, I don't remember, but it didn't happen

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anyway, enough of that. I just wanted to I saw that on your on

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your one sheet, and I went, Oh yeah, college basketball, it

Janice Porter:

makes me Yes, but is it more football that you cheer on

Jennifer Kaplan:

I do when it comes to my school? Yes, yeah.

Jennifer Kaplan:

We're not as strong on the basketball side or compared to

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our rivalry, got it.

Janice Porter:

Okay, sounds fun. All right, let's get in. So the

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first thing that note that I noticed was that you had

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dedicated your career to not only doing PR, but for fostering

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meaningful connections, because I'm all about connections and

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relationships and all of that good stuff. So what would you

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say the key principles that you follow are that cultivate and

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maintain relationships. First of all,

Jennifer Kaplan:

oh my gosh. Well, first I wanted to say

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that, you know, building relationships and the name of

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your podcast, relationship rules. I mean, you know,

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relationships rule. Relationships rule, yeah, it's a

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little trickier, but it Yeah, no, but it's so true, and

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fostering those connections and networking and referrals and

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having strong and a strong and impactful reputation is vital.

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And so I feel that in business you know, to grow your network

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and be respected by others. And then that is where I feel your

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reputation and referrals and all of the things that people want

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in being successful in their business come from. And so I

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feel that the relationships and the way you build them and the

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way you present yourself is the most important thing.

Janice Porter:

So when you begin talks with a company to work

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with them, Have you ever like, Have you ever come across one

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that you go, Oh, my God, how have they survived this far?

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Like they have no idea, and so to bring them to what they need

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to be is big,

Jennifer Kaplan:

yeah, absolutely. I mean, I feel like

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sometimes, sometimes, when I have that feeling, they

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obviously are putting out maybe a product or a service that's so

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good that it doesn't matter if they get in their own way. I

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guess, if you will. I was just having a conversation with

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someone about a restaurant, and you know, maybe the service

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isn't that great. The manager, the quality of the way you're

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being treated, in a way, is not top notch. But you love the

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food, so you probably go back. I love that meal, and so I feel

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like, in that way, some of our clients, what we want to do is

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get them to the point where people aren't on the street

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saying, and no matter what the business, not just restaurant, I

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understand but that there is a holistic feeling there. It's

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like, oh my gosh. I walk in and I felt so welcomed. And then I

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sat down, and the server was so great. And then I had this

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incredible meal. Because where that conversation led earlier is

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it's like, well, you can just get the food to go. Well, that's

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not really going to help the business, yeah, at the end of

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the day. And if that's my client, that isn't what I want

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right on out there. So I think that people really need to,

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especially entrepreneurs, especially people with small

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businesses, they have to be so extra cognizant of, you know,

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that impression and that reputation. Bigger

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organizations, the apples, Coca Cola, I don't know, McDonald's,

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they can flub up here and there, and it's really not going to

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have an impact. But that a small business owner is really number

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one. In my opinion. I agree.

Janice Porter:

I think one thing can just and and is I give them

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another chance in how they recover. So I had an incident

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this morning. Actually, I get this meal service a couple of

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times a week, every other week or something, and, and they're

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pretty good. The food's pretty good, although sometimes I get

Janice Porter:

bored with their choices, and so I'll go off for a while, and

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then I'll come back to it. But last week, I had two meals

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delivered, and one of them was pretty I'd had it before, and it

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was pretty basic, and I wasn't truly paying attention, but the

Janice Porter:

things weren't labeled, and I mixed up two sauces, like one

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was for like a beef dip, and it was for the the the side dish,

Janice Porter:

and the other was for the demi glaze sauce, right? And I looked

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at the colors of the two packages on the pictures, and

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one was lighter and one was darker. So I did exactly what

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that it said it was wrong, and I messed up the sauce, and it was

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horrible. And so I finally called them this morning,

Janice Porter:

because I'm like, first of all, guys, you know, be nice, if you

Janice Porter:

could just label them. Sometimes you do and sometimes you don't.

Janice Porter:

And I have called before when I've had an issue, and they

Janice Porter:

they're pretty nice, they're pretty good. But then they'll

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say to me, we'll take, you know, we're sorry for whatever, and

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you know, we'll give you $10 credit on your next order. And

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today, I was like, No, damn it. It wrecked the whole meal. I

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don't want a $10 credit. I want 59 or $26 or whatever. It was

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valuable. Yeah, I want the value of the meal. And so she, she did

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it, but I had to ask for it. And I just thought, you know, I said

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this. I said, I appreciate that you took the time to do that, or

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that you were able to do that because meals have gone up.

Janice Porter:

Everything goes up in price, but you haven't upped the, you know,

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the $10 rebate kind of thing, for what

Jennifer Kaplan:

the value and making people feel well, so

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that's that's really important. And the domino effect of that is

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not only you telling that story to other people, whether it's

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your family or your neighbor or on your

Janice Porter:

podcast. Yeah, exactly. But now

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what people are doing is they're taking a social

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media and that to me, you know, it's really hard to recover from

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some of those situations we just saw in the last couple of weeks,

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Southwest Airlines, they one of the the airline carriers are now

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going to be charging for bags where that was their big thing.

Jennifer Kaplan:

Yes, well, people are just, I mean, I saw so many posts on

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social media people upset and tagging them and saying things

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and, you know, you can't really control it. That's a little

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extreme. You know, they're making a decision company wide.

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But my point is, people are going to walk out of that

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restaurant or walk out of that experience situation that they

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have, and they're going to take to social media. And we do a lot

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of crisis PR, and we don't. We don't want to, we don't want to

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have to do that. And, you know, establish a statement and put it

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out. Where are we going to put it out, and who we talking to?

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And then other people learn about it. And it's just, you

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know, many years ago, a saying that I really like is people do

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business with, people they like and people they trust. Yeah, and

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so sometimes, when that using the same analogy with the

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restaurant, if the meal is okay even, but you do walk in and you

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have that feeling of, you know, feeling welcomed and serviced

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and all of that, you'll go back there. And so in talking to our

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clients, it really is about the people too, and not just what's

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on the plate. A lot of people say, Oh, just get them in the

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door and we'll make sure they're they'll they'll stay forever.

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Sometimes that isn't the case. So I say to people in all

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industries that it comes down to your reputation. It's really

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important. I don't think people think about it as much. Plus,

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just going back to social media, is videoing, you know, to be in

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an establishment, and it is not just a restaurant, the doctor's

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office or anywhere else, they're recording something that they

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feel is not the way it should be. And those things are really

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hard. They go viral. And yeah, then. Dealing with a much

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greater situation. So,

Janice Porter:

so your primary business, PR agency, I think

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today still of traditional PR, so it's TV, it's radio, it's

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podcasting. Even brands online, yeah, brand online, okay, so is

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it, did you have to do a real switch when you from 2010 like

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to more social media and less traditional? Or is it always

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like, what's the mix and or does it depend on the client? I

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suppose. Well,

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and that's a great question. What a lot of

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those mediums have done, TV, radio, print, online, all those

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they have taken to social media. So an article that might have

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been in the traditional newspaper that they're throwing

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on your driveway. Now that newspaper has their own social

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media page, and they're sharing the stories, and they're

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repurposing the stories we see with TV. They require the

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reporters who are going out and doing an interview, if you

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missed that segment this morning, well, now that reporter

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might be required to do some sort of post or share of that

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experience wherever they were and put it on their social

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media. So there is a shift. There is there is no question

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that the essence of social media is crucial. That is that is

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there. However, there's still those platforms are still really

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important, and the media outlets are also using social media to

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repurpose what they're airing.

Janice Porter:

So you focus on the primary PR channels still,

Janice Porter:

and then they take it to social correct. They

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also have email blasts, yeah. They also have,

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you know, different tentacles that they're putting out. And

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then, separately, you know, podcasts are now in that realm

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of importance and means of people consuming information.

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And then we do work with influencers. Back when it

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started, a long time ago, I used to call them bloggers, okay, now

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they're influencers, yeah, but they're important as well.

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There's micro influencers that are really focused in maybe a

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certain area of a city or on a certain topic. So

Janice Porter:

what comes to mind that I've been following,

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actually, that some Well, I was before that the American

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election was, what's his name? Caroline Kennedy son

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Schlossberg. Schlossman, yeah, yeah, he would be one of those,

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right? He was sort of speaking to his younger audience about,

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you know, who to vote for, and following all of that. And I

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thought he did it in a really hip kind of way. I liked

Jennifer Kaplan:

it. Well, we saw a big shift in that, not not

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getting political, but really the the change of that in our

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world, in our political realm, with platforming on social

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media, was Obama, and he does such an excellent job of

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reaching out to younger people through social media,

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introducing use this hashtag and follow me here. And I mean, it's

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just this movement that's so

Janice Porter:

well he was building relationship, yeah,

Janice Porter:

absolutely

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present, yeah, conviction. That's exactly

Jennifer Kaplan:

right. You get to be a Voyer in some world too.

Janice Porter:

Yes, yeah, social media. Um, okay, so what would

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you say are some hidden communication challenges that

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many businesses overlook,

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I would say for me, the biggest thing that

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stands out that I see is leaning into situations when you need to

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being forward about something and not as cryptic, Whether that

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is a crisis or even you're launching something, and you

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know you haven't fully announced it yet, and people are starting

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to hear rumors. I think that letting people speculate and

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guess and assume is not the best so I think the most important

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thing that businesses can do is really be out there and forward

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with good, bad, indifferent, when they have something to

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announce or share. And I'm not just talking about on social

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media, I'm talking about maybe with a press release or doing an

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interview or having a press conference or doing some sort of

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announcement. I think it's really important, because people

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are eager to know, you know what's happening down the

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street, or what's this? So

Janice Porter:

I don't, I can't stay away from some of the

Janice Porter:

things that are happening politically, even though I don't

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political. So as a PR person, and as a person who deals in

Janice Porter:

crisis modes and who has it, i. A Pope, what was her name? Oh,

Janice Porter:

on Scandal. On scandal. What was her name? Olivia Pope. Olivia

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Pope, you're Olivia Pope. And yes, and the the new big poo

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balls in the government have a a group zoom message, or some kind

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of message, and there's a reporter in there that they

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don't even know is on the call, like this is how the

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government's being run today. Disaster. So now they bring you

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in to deal with it. What would you do? Oh, gosh, I'm just

Janice Porter:

playing here, because, I mean,

Jennifer Kaplan:

yeah, I know we can't go back, right? So I think

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with anything now taking it out of political and just apply to

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business, that is a really good example, because that could even

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happen on an email, you know, I'm typing your name in, yes,

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yes, and I get J, a n, and then I get Jana, who's, you know, one

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of the news outlets, but I meant to type J, a, n, i, and it just

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caught me. And so I feel like, so it's done, right? Yeah, the

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text is down range, the emails down range, you know, it's done.

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And so I do feel on one hand, because I see it happen

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accidents, you know, and I'm not excusing that right now. Now

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that's another layer again. I'm taking it to like just

Janice Porter:

I understand. I think you

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have to be immediate, and that's what I was

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saying a few minutes ago. I think you have to immediately

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acknowledge and recognize and take ownership of a situation. I

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think there's something authentic and real that people

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like than hiding or defending or deflecting. And so for me, in

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those situations, even from a political, you know, standpoint,

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I think just being forward facing, I used to call it the

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Tiger Woods. Familiar with Tiger Woods, many, many years ago, he

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had a situation, and it was like everyone's waiting for him to

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make a statement. Everyone's waiting for him to talk about

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it. And I think when you don't, people start to lose a little

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bit of trust, of course, little bit of interest, like, why are

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you doing this? Yeah, good point. If I send something you

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know incorrectly to the wrong person, you know, and then

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there's the layer of oops, I just sent it the wrong person.

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But what about the content and it being, you know, in the

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situation, example, you use something a little more private

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or a little bit more heightened. You just hope that maybe the

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receiving person accepts and acknowledges the mistake and it

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doesn't blow up. But I think my point is just taking ownership

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right away is the most. I

Janice Porter:

think that that makes total sense absolutely so

Janice Porter:

what are three key elements to a compelling narrative that can

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help businesses connect with their target audience.

Jennifer Kaplan:

Three key elements to a compelling

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narrative,

Janice Porter:

so you're doing some branding now, I guess, for

Janice Porter:

somebody and can help their businesses connect with their

Janice Porter:

target audience. So telling the story of the company, yeah,

Jennifer Kaplan:

well, first you need to know your audience. Yes,

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I see that a lot because businesses clients

Janice Porter:

want but they don't that. They don't know

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their audience. Oftentimes

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they don't, okay, I'm seeing a little more

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now. Clients create personas. Yes, is the actual person she's

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got, you know, she's this age, and it's she or it's he, yeah,

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like to go work out on the weekends. He like really

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drilling it down. Because often times, if that swath is so big,

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the client just they think we can take anyone. We take them

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all. We treat them all. We can feed them all. We can work with

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them all. Sometimes it doesn't, I don't know if I said this to

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you and we, we spoke earlier, but get rich in your niche. You

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know, know who you are, and be true to that. And then from

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there, those, those businesses, those clients will come. It will

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foster that. And I feel like, oftentimes, I mean, granted, I I

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try to sit in the seat of doing that. But anyway, I think number

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one would be to know, know your audience, know who you're

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talking to, and then be true to your message. You know,

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sometimes people get lost in their message. You know, what is

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it that you do? You know, old school would be like your

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tagline or your, you know, your mission or your statement. But I

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think that's still really important, because people are

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hit with so much information that, you know. I think just

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knowing, oh, we can go there. Or they're going to have this or,

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you know, this person does that because your message is clear,

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so you know who you're talking to, and then how are you talking

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to them with your message? I think those are really

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important. And then the last thing, which we were talking

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about also is delivering on it and living it and being true to

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it. And I think that's what's going to keep people coming

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back. You spoke to me. It resonated for me. You got me in

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the door or to call or go to your website. Don't let it fall

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flat, right liver on said product or service, and then you

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probably have me for a long time or for life. Do

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you think that still happens today? Because I'm

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a really loyal customer, and I get, I I get, in a way, maybe

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stuck in my ways, because I, you know, always want the same

Janice Porter:

brand, or always go back to the same thing. I'm, I'm but I'm

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loyal. Do you think that loyalty is still there with today's

Janice Porter:

consumer and today's business providers, I don't know if it

Janice Porter:

is,

Jennifer Kaplan:

I don't feel it is as much. And I guess to ask

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you, using the example you did earlier with with the food that

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you had delivered, if they didn't correct it, or if they

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corrected it, but weren't willing to give you more than

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just the $10 credit, or you didn't say anything today, but

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now it happens a few more times. Would you lean on the fact that

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you love it so much? It's easy, it's healthy, it feels ticks all

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these boxes. Or you'd be like, You know what? It's more of an

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inconvenience that I get the sauces screwed up, they're not

Jennifer Kaplan:

giving me the customer service I want, like, so I would say, you

Jennifer Kaplan:

know, where do you think?

Janice Porter:

Well, I think I feel as though I'm comfortable

Janice Porter:

with generally with them, but I might go off it for a while and

Janice Porter:

see if I miss it. It's not the end of the world. There are

Janice Porter:

other ones, although I know where their food comes from, I

Janice Porter:

know it's fresh and whatever, but yeah, I would probably, I

Janice Porter:

don't know, I don't think I'd spend as much money, but I might

Janice Porter:

give them another you know, I give them a try. I'd like to

Janice Porter:

communicate with the company, and that's what's always hard to

Janice Porter:

do today with most companies, I could get them on the phone, so

Janice Porter:

it was fine, but so often you can't, and so I give up.

Jennifer Kaplan:

Yeah, I mean, so couple things that you said,

Jennifer Kaplan:

so the grass isn't always greener on the other side,

Jennifer Kaplan:

right? So Correct. You're trading one problem with this

Jennifer Kaplan:

company for maybe a bigger problem with another company. So

Jennifer Kaplan:

there's there. There's that aspect. Can I put up with this?

Jennifer Kaplan:

Because I'm really getting all this great whatever. But you

Jennifer Kaplan:

bring up going back to a little bit of the relationship and the

Jennifer Kaplan:

communication, that is something that I feel has become more of a

Jennifer Kaplan:

divide for people I can't get a hold of someone I just talked to

Jennifer Kaplan:

an automated and I think we're going to see more of that. You

Jennifer Kaplan:

know, with automation, with AI, with cost of things going up,

Jennifer Kaplan:

staffing and others, just the overhead is high for people, so

Jennifer Kaplan:

it's easier to streamline their business. And I would say to

Jennifer Kaplan:

businesses, try not to get away from that if you can, because I

Jennifer Kaplan:

feel like that can make all the difference. There's a there's a

Jennifer Kaplan:

steak house here in town. We keep using food as an example,

Jennifer Kaplan:

but there's a steak house here in town. It's the only

Jennifer Kaplan:

restaurant I know. I make a reservation eat the next day, no

Jennifer Kaplan:

matter what day it is, Saturday, Sunday, whatever the next day is

Jennifer Kaplan:

of the week, they call the next day and they say, we just want

Jennifer Kaplan:

to make sure you had a good time or a nice experience, or if

Jennifer Kaplan:

there's any feedback, nobody does that anymore. Now that is

Jennifer Kaplan:

like makes such a difference. Now, honestly, 99% of the time I

Jennifer Kaplan:

see them calling, I don't answer it. I don't call them back.

Jennifer Kaplan:

There's no need, but that touch and that knowing if I had a

Jennifer Kaplan:

problem,

Janice Porter:

yeah, yeah, wanting to know, yeah, that's

Janice Porter:

pretty special. But then in in some of you know, my, some of

Janice Porter:

the work that I do. I'm talking to people about, you know,

Janice Porter:

sending a card, an unexpected card, when it can do more good

Janice Porter:

than so many other things, because they're not expecting

Janice Porter:

it. You're thinking of them and, wow, you took the time to do it,

Janice Porter:

and that puts you in their mind and their heart, because you've

Janice Porter:

sent them something tangible. So it goes from their head to their

Janice Porter:

heart, and they'll remember you for a while longer, you know. So

Janice Porter:

there's all of that too, that all that building relationship,

Janice Porter:

right? You said something earlier, and I remember reading

Janice Porter:

in your, um. Bio about your family is entrepreneurial, and

Janice Porter:

you said the riches are in your niches. And I, I have to say

Janice Porter:

niche, so I can't really use that for Yeah, yeah, but, but

Janice Porter:

was that from your mom? Was it your mom?

Jennifer Kaplan:

Yes, my mom said it. I think she's told me,

Jennifer Kaplan:

like, I want to give her credit all the time, and I think she

Jennifer Kaplan:

said she read it somewhere,

Janice Porter:

that's fine, but she shared that with you, and

Janice Porter:

she was an entrepreneur too.

Jennifer Kaplan:

She is, yeah, she's an interior designer. My

Jennifer Kaplan:

brother owns a large transportation company, and my

Jennifer Kaplan:

dad was in the travel industry, also as an entrepreneur. And I'm

Jennifer Kaplan:

interrupting you by saying we brought up my mom and the rich

Jennifer Kaplan:

in your niche

Janice Porter:

doesn't rhyme. Yeah. Another one

Jennifer Kaplan:

that she will take credit for, that that she

Jennifer Kaplan:

said to us, and I think that was kind of the catalyst in my

Jennifer Kaplan:

brother and I both being entrepreneurs, is she'll call

Jennifer Kaplan:

fear the real four letter F word. And I think that fear

Jennifer Kaplan:

holds a lot of people back from taking that launch or step, or

Jennifer Kaplan:

even if they have a business, maybe starting a new business

Jennifer Kaplan:

line, or what does it take to grow the business? And I

Jennifer Kaplan:

remember many times, you know, hiring more or whatever the you

Jennifer Kaplan:

know, investing in a tool that might help them, it can be

Jennifer Kaplan:

scary. And I feel like, you know, that's something I lean on

Jennifer Kaplan:

a lot, because I recall those words of, sure, you know, yeah,

Jennifer Kaplan:

fear, you know, I'm not saying go jump out of a plane, but

Jennifer Kaplan:

there are fears with our feet on the ground of doing business

Jennifer Kaplan:

that can hold us back

Janice Porter:

well. And I think I heard, heard the one, feel the

Janice Porter:

fear and do it anyway. And so, you know, you can acknowledge

Janice Porter:

it, but, you know, take the leap, so to speak. And I

Janice Porter:

remember, it's funny, because I did some personal growth work

Janice Porter:

few, several years ago. And I remember, you know, that exact

Janice Porter:

thing, I'm scared to death to climb up this 50 foot pole and

Janice Porter:

get on the platform and jump off on a zip line. I was like,

Janice Porter:

petrified, but I did it. And then you look back and say you

Janice Porter:

did it, you know, like, so you can do anything, if you can do

Janice Porter:

those things. So, yeah, those are kind of fun. So if you could

Janice Porter:

give one piece of advice to someone looking to scale their

Janice Porter:

business through relationship driven strategies. What would

Janice Porter:

you what would it be?

Jennifer Kaplan:

I know I said this earlier, but really,

Jennifer Kaplan:

really, really value your reputation. I mean, the way you

Jennifer Kaplan:

present yourself physically, you know, yeah, but, you know, put a

Jennifer Kaplan:

certain outfit on when you're walking in somewhere. Just make

Jennifer Kaplan:

sure that you're presenting yourself externally and then

Jennifer Kaplan:

internally, verbally, you know, and your interaction, I love

Jennifer Kaplan:

your follow up notes. I mean, all of those things are going to

Jennifer Kaplan:

separate you. And so I feel like that reputation is is all that

Jennifer Kaplan:

you have at the end of the day. And I guess also, because I do

Jennifer Kaplan:

that for a living, right? PR, one, I'm in a service industry,

Jennifer Kaplan:

so I don't have a widget that I can lean on. And being an

Jennifer Kaplan:

entrepreneur, I value referrals and people saying good things

Jennifer Kaplan:

about my business to hopefully get get others, but then people

Jennifer Kaplan:

remember you and talk about you in ways that will help you grow,

Jennifer Kaplan:

and, you know, fulfill other goals. And so, yeah, I just

Jennifer Kaplan:

think that the reputation is really essential for people, and

Jennifer Kaplan:

if they keep that in mind from the moment they get up, even

Jennifer Kaplan:

being nice to a person at a grocery store or whatever it is,

Jennifer Kaplan:

I think that that's really important. I

Janice Porter:

remember many, many years ago, I was doing an

Janice Porter:

event for a friend of mine who was a producer of a show down in

Janice Porter:

LA and he was doing some tryouts, and he asked me to do

Janice Porter:

some tryouts up here for him. These were for dancers. And I'm

Janice Porter:

not going to tell you the whole story right now. It's take too

Janice Porter:

long, but offline I can anyway, I did these tryouts in a club,

Janice Porter:

and I brought all these dancers in, and I did this whole thing,

Janice Porter:

and we had celebrity judges, and it was really fun, but a couple

Janice Porter:

of the judges were local. There was it was supposed to be the

Janice Porter:

entertainment critic from the newspaper, and she couldn't

Janice Porter:

come, and she sent this other guy who I knew, and I knew who

Janice Porter:

he was, but he didn't normally write in that on that beat in

Janice Porter:

the newspaper, and he basically trashed me in an article he

Janice Porter:

wrote because it, he thought it was a complete competition, and

Janice Porter:

that, you know, whoever they voted. Four would win, but it

Janice Porter:

was for a TV show, and they were hiring, then they were trying to

Janice Porter:

balance the different kinds of so I had to kind of encourage

Janice Porter:

them to, you know, do one which way. And so he said that I did

Janice Porter:

such a terrible job, and I did all this stuff, and it was

Janice Porter:

terrible, and it was in the newspaper, and I was in tears,

Janice Porter:

but then, you know, it was gone in a day, right? And so do you

Janice Porter:

believe that any press is good press, or, you know what? I

Janice Porter:

mean, like today, it would have been a lot worse. I mean, I

Janice Porter:

survived it, right? But I remember that incident to this

Janice Porter:

day. Yeah,

Jennifer Kaplan:

I um, whoever said there's no such thing as

Jennifer Kaplan:

bad? PR, I disagree. Okay, it has taken celebrities down. It

Jennifer Kaplan:

has taken true businesses down. We had some controversial things

Jennifer Kaplan:

after COVID That you know, were happening in the United States.

Jennifer Kaplan:

And those things, while, yes, a little bit political, but still

Jennifer Kaplan:

just issues. And I feel like people, you know, they just,

Jennifer Kaplan:

yeah, those things can definitely affect you. What

Jennifer Kaplan:

comes out of your mouth, what you say, how, even just in an

Jennifer Kaplan:

intimate setting, if we were just a couple girlfriends

Jennifer Kaplan:

having, you know, coffee at your house, and I said something off

Jennifer Kaplan:

the cuff that didn't even go, go big, you know, I'm going to, I

Jennifer Kaplan:

might lose friends, I might lose, you know, relationships

Jennifer Kaplan:

and all of that. So I think people need to think a little

Jennifer Kaplan:

bit about, you know, how they're, they're acting. I

Jennifer Kaplan:

understand if a critic has their time and place and their role,

Jennifer Kaplan:

but people just doing that. To do that is, I know it was, it

Jennifer Kaplan:

was interesting that that's silly for people to do that, but

Jennifer Kaplan:

yeah, I don't think there is such a thing as bad. PR,

Janice Porter:

okay, perfect. All right, so just a couple

Janice Porter:

quick questions to divert and wrap up. My favorite word is

Janice Porter:

curiosity. I love being curious about people and about things.

Janice Porter:

And I noticed actually, I was out with my little granddaughter

Janice Porter:

yesterday, and we were at the library doing some playing some

Janice Porter:

games there, and she kept asking, oh no, we were in my car

Janice Porter:

coming home, and she's in the back seat, and she's looking at

Janice Porter:

the dashboard on my car, and she goes, Grandma, why does it say

Janice Porter:

zero there? And why is that one blue and that one like it was

Janice Porter:

the constant, you know, the why? Why? Why? And I loved it because

Janice Porter:

it was curiosity at its finest from a five year old child. So

Janice Porter:

my question for you is, do you think that curiosity is innate

Janice Porter:

or learned? And part two, what are you most curious about

Janice Porter:

today?

Jennifer Kaplan:

Hmm, um, I think it's innate. And I think

Jennifer Kaplan:

as we get older, we feel like we know what we're afraid to ask um

Jennifer Kaplan:

for, maybe being judged or, you know, why don't you? You don't

Jennifer Kaplan:

know what that dash is for. You don't know what that you know

Jennifer Kaplan:

what I mean. But and when you're young, there's an innocence.

Jennifer Kaplan:

Yes, you think it reverts back when you're older, that you can

Jennifer Kaplan:

get away with that as well again. But I think there's a

Jennifer Kaplan:

segment of your life that, in that biggest chunk of life, that

Jennifer Kaplan:

being too curious, in just everyday life, yeah, can be

Jennifer Kaplan:

judged a little bit. That's a stupid Why would you ask that?

Jennifer Kaplan:

Well, maybe that person knows, but that other person didn't

Jennifer Kaplan:

know. So I think it's wonderful to be curious, but I do think

Jennifer Kaplan:

you're just I think we are all curious, and I think it's

Jennifer Kaplan:

innate. What am I curious about? A lot I always want to learn and

Jennifer Kaplan:

grow. And I think for me, because I studied communications

Jennifer Kaplan:

and college yes with an emphasis in public relations, but one of

Jennifer Kaplan:

my favorite classes were non verbal communication, and I'm

Jennifer Kaplan:

always curious people's cues that they don't even realize

Jennifer Kaplan:

they're doing Yes, and what some of the meaning is behind, you

Jennifer Kaplan:

know, a look or an action or a movement, and what it can imply.

Jennifer Kaplan:

So I think for me, I always get excited to kind of pick up on,

Jennifer Kaplan:

you know, those vibes from people and and what maybe it's

Jennifer Kaplan:

interpreting. Did

Janice Porter:

you see that show called, what was it called lies?

Janice Porter:

Oh, so good.

Unknown:

Yeah, it was our Dateline. Yeah. I'll talk

Janice Porter:

about that later, because I can't remember the

Janice Porter:

name of it for them. But anyway, that's great. That was an

Janice Porter:

interesting answer. Actually, I like that that that hadn't heard

Janice Porter:

for a while about people you know, kind of putting you down

Janice Porter:

for being curious, and so we stop in so many ways. So that's

Janice Porter:

awesome. Thank you for sharing that. All right. Wrap Up. Last

Janice Porter:

last thoughts for my audience around PR and relationships.

Janice Porter:

Last thoughts, anything. Mean,

Jennifer Kaplan:

yeah. I mean, if you own a business and you

Jennifer Kaplan:

know you're you're relying on a community or a group of people

Jennifer Kaplan:

to grow your business and be successful, just think about

Jennifer Kaplan:

your reputation and the way you're treating others,

Jennifer Kaplan:

interacting with others, and go home and scream and yell and

Jennifer Kaplan:

complain and all that, that's okay. I'm not saying don't do

Jennifer Kaplan:

it, but I would say when you're you know, when you walk out and

Jennifer Kaplan:

you want to make an impact and people to remember you just

Jennifer Kaplan:

think about your reputation while doing that. Yes,

Janice Porter:

that's great. Thank you so much. Thank you for

Janice Porter:

being here. We could go on and on. It's an interesting topic to

Janice Porter:

me, and I I love, like, studying ads and things like that,

Janice Porter:

because I think you can learn so much from what they mean. So

Janice Porter:

thank you. Thank you for being here. Thank you. You're great to

Janice Porter:

talk to. Thank you. Thank you to my audience. I appreciate you

Janice Porter:

being here. If you like what you heard, please let us know by

Janice Porter:

leaving a review and thank you again. Remember to stay

Janice Porter:

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Relationships Rule
It’s always about Relationships!
Imagine that 68% of our clients leave because they feel we don’t care. Then visualize having authentic heart-based retention strategies, proven to minimize client losses, while organically generating a substantial number of loyal clients through referrals.

Catch a glimpse of how Janice opens a conversation by applying her fine-tuned curiosity. Notice how genuinely interested she is in building a relationship with her guests – heart-based business owners and entrepreneurs. In mere minutes, guests generously share their most sweet and powerful retention systems that you can adopt today!

As a seasoned relationship marketing specialist, Janice invites us to listen in weekly, as she reveals how to nurture and build relationships in real-time.

The Relationships Rule podcast’s aim, is to help you naturally ease your networking fears, so you can adopt strategies that amplify your client list, because the facts are, that today, success is built on a foundation of strong relationships. You can relax now, knowing you can activate your relationship marketing plan, by simply tuning in to Relationships Rule each week.

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Janice Porter

I began my career as a teacher, was a corporate trainer for many years, and have now found my niche in coaching business owners to network at a world-class level.
My passion is working with motivated people, who are coachable and who want to build their businesses through relationship marketing and networking (offline & online). I help my clients create retention strategies, grow through referrals, and create loyal customers by staying connected.