Episode 314

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10th Jun 2025

Redefining Success on Your Own Terms with Kym Insana | RR314

Let’s be real. Scaling a business while parenting isn’t easy, but, believe it or not, it is possible when you create it on your own terms.

Kym Insana didn’t start out trying to build an agency, she just wanted a life that worked for her and her family. What happened next was a business that grew from word-of-mouth relationships, smart strategy, and a whole lot of trust in herself. In this conversation Kym shares how she left corporate, raised four boys, and built Always On Digital without sacrificing what matters most to her.

Kym describes what it really looks like to run a values-driven company, how she chooses clients and platforms with intention, and why flexibility isn’t just a perk, it’s part of the plan.

This episode is full of thoughtful, real-world insight from someone who has built a business around people first, not just her clients and teams but also herself. It’s honest, encouraging, and full of quiet permission to grow in your own way.

Highlights:

  • Why building a business around your life—not the other way around—changes everything.
  • Tips for hiring, leading, and supporting a remote team that values flexibility and trust.
  • What to consider when choosing digital platforms and where to focus your efforts.
  • The power of organic marketing and when to layer in paid strategies.
  • How personal values can (and should) shape your business growth plan.

Connect with Kym:

Website: https://getalwayson.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kyminsana/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GetAlwaysOn/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/alwaysondigital/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alwaysondigital/


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Transcript
Janice Porter:

Kim, hello and welcome to this week's episode

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of relationships rule the show, where we explore the power of

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authentic connection in business and beyond. Today's guest Kim

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insana is the founder of always on digital, a seven figure

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marketing agency delivering real results for major brands. Her

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journey to success wasn't a straight line. After leaving

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demanding a demanding corporate role, and while juggling the

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responsibilities of raising three and then then then four

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boys, Kim decided to build something different. She created

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a business that not only serves clients, but empowers other

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women to pursue success without sacrificing family. In this

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episode, we'll explore how Kim turned a career setback into a

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mission driven company, how relationships are the heart of

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her growth, and why redefining success is sometimes the first

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step toward truly living it a bit long but welcome to the

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show, Kim, and thanks for waiting patiently while I shared

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about your background.

Kym Insana:

Thank you so much, Dennis, I'm so happy to be here

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with you. You are

Janice Porter:

very welcome. I'm actually, I was inspired by your

Janice Porter:

by your story, and I wondered if you'd share a little bit about

Janice Porter:

your backstory, because I know that you kind of walked away

Janice Porter:

from your corporate career, and there was some things around it

Janice Porter:

that, did you have the aha moment in the middle of a

Janice Porter:

downsizing, or what? What was it? So

Kym Insana:

I think, to your point about redefining what

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success is, is kind of the light bulb that went off for me

Kym Insana:

because I had three kids at the time, I was really struggling

Kym Insana:

with the office hours and getting to where I needed to be

Kym Insana:

by the end of the day, after school pickups, being late

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constantly and struggling to leave the office and make my

Kym Insana:

commute. And I felt like I had just so many balls in the air

Kym Insana:

between trying to make work happy, grow in my career and go

Kym Insana:

into a leadership roles and then be able to be there for my

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family and for me, the aha moment was really just being

Kym Insana:

with my kids one day and realizing I only have barely an

Kym Insana:

hour with them at night, and that hour is dinner and bedtime

Kym Insana:

and bath. And anyone who has kids that are in the you know,

Kym Insana:

two year old range understands that's the worst time of day.

Kym Insana:

It's like the witching hour, and it wasn't as enjoyable as I

Kym Insana:

wanted to be. And then I ended up realizing on the weekends,

Kym Insana:

you're struggling to clean the house or make sure they have

Kym Insana:

activities and do your grocery shopping, and so much just was

Kym Insana:

going on that I felt like there has to be a better way to

Kym Insana:

support working mothers. And I had gone to our CEO, I saw that

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they had a pattern of helping other businesses get started and

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invest in them, and then they would help them, you know, go on

Kym Insana:

their way and look at this successful business arm that we

Kym Insana:

have now. And so I had approached our CEO early on, you

Kym Insana:

know, like at the end of the year, and they had said, Well,

Kym Insana:

you know, it's a sales organization. You have to give

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us, you know, a few months to get through. And what ended up

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happening is they were doing a massive layoff. They put me as

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part of it, which worked out because I had a little bit of

Kym Insana:

cushion to get started. I think there was a second moment of

Kym Insana:

panic once it did happen, I realized that I had to do this

Kym Insana:

many days. I thought maybe I should just go get a regular job

Kym Insana:

again. But once I started have a little time at home with my kids

Kym Insana:

and could be there and attend things, I felt like this was the

Kym Insana:

right move. And success does not have to be how much money you're

Kym Insana:

making. Obviously, we need to make money to live and and have

Kym Insana:

a fulfilling life the way we want it. But it's not a race to

Kym Insana:

see how much we can make. And obviously being in sales driven

Kym Insana:

roles, that is the mentality. But I thought that there could

Kym Insana:

be a better way to kind of have a little bit of everything.

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Maybe you don't have it all of everything, but you have the,

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you know, the satisfaction in having a career, making some

Kym Insana:

good money, being able to help others, and then, most

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importantly, be able to be there in your family's life and not

Kym Insana:

have them feel, you know, like you're never there. And you know

Kym Insana:

one moment for me when my oldest son, he's 18 now, he was in

Kym Insana:

preschool, and they had a journal that they would write,

Kym Insana:

and it was really them drawing pictures, and the teacher would

Kym Insana:

translate what it said, and every single one of the pages

Kym Insana:

that my son drew about me, which was a lot, was about how mommy

Kym Insana:

goes to the city to make money. Mommy is at work. I hear mommy's

Kym Insana:

keys coming because I was the last person to come at daycare,

Kym Insana:

and all of these things that well, he didn't mean anything by

Kym Insana:

it, and he, luckily, doesn't have any trauma from it. Now, I

Kym Insana:

felt horrible about it, and so much guilt, and I didn't want, I

Kym Insana:

don't think that that's how we should be living our life. It

Kym Insana:

doesn't seem that doesn't seem to make any sense. Sense to me,

Kym Insana:

for myself or anyone.

Janice Porter:

Yeah, that's a I guess, in my own little way, I

Janice Porter:

did a similar thing, because I taught school, and I always

Janice Porter:

thought I would always be a teacher, and that actually was a

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good job for being a parent, because I was a single parent

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with my first daughter up until she was six or eight, but she

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got to come to the school where I taught after the preschool bit

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and everything, and my hours allowed me to pick her up and

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have her be there and so on. But pick her up, I'd let her go to

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after school daycare in a home nearby the school, but she was

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close by, but I didn't like the bureaucracy in the teaching

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profession that I wasn't totally happy, so I left and did

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something else, became a contractor and taught or trained

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in a professional environment as a corporate trainer. However, as

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a contractor, I was able to call my shots a little bit, but I

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had, there were sacrifices in doing that. I didn't get the

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pension at the end of the day, right? I didn't have the steady

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it was if I chose not to work because I was going to a

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basketball tournament or I was going to whatever, then that was

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my choice, and that, to me, was more important. So I sense what

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you were doing, and I really admire you for doing that,

Janice Porter:

because we have kids. They need us, right? And so the

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flexibility, I think, is the piece that that was so important

Janice Porter:

for me. I know it wasn't. It sounds like it was for you, too.

Janice Porter:

So would you say, I have a question here that I'm not

Janice Porter:

really sure that I want to ask, but I'm going to switch it up a

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little bit. It says my question I've written down is, as a

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mother of four and a successful business owner, how do you

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approach work life balance today, and what strategies have

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helped you? And I don't think work life balance is is a thing.

Janice Porter:

I think you choose, you know you it's not like 5050, or 64 it's

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not like that, right? I don't see it that way. And I hope when

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asking the question, you understand that. So, yeah, okay,

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it's a

Kym Insana:

seesaw to me, because sometimes you're all the

Kym Insana:

way up and then sometimes you're all the way down. You're just

Kym Insana:

trying, trying not to fall off.

Janice Porter:

And so balance for sure, in that respect, yeah,

Janice Porter:

you

Kym Insana:

know, you're never balanced, trying to balance it,

Kym Insana:

but we're never completely balanced. I don't, I've never

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had, you know, maybe have good days or or other days, but there

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always is something that we're doing last minute or where we're

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struggling and, you know, wrenches get thrown into

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anything. I got chosen for jury duty two weeks ago. And like,

Kym Insana:

selected and everybody, like, how did you get selected? Nobody

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ever get and I tried. I have, you know, have this business,

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and I have all these kids, right? How do I arrange for

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pickups and all this? And luckily, ended up ending really

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quickly, but it was you can't control those things, and that's

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where I you know, I think you just try to balance it as best

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as you can. But sometimes other people have to help pick up

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pieces and support you, and you have to lean on them and have a

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really good team and be okay with taking support from people.

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You know, sometimes you may be in a situation where you're

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taking a lot from somebody at a given time, but how can you

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repay that back, whether it be to that parent or a person that

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or someone else, right? And I had so much of that throughout

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my life, and I'm always trying to offer it up wherever I can

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like. If someone needs a ride, I offer it I'm going to that

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school I am so happy to take your kid to and drop off,

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because you shouldn't have to worry about it if I'm there,

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because I there's going to be days where I need something,

Kym Insana:

right? You know, it's not that I'm going into it thinking I'm

Kym Insana:

going to get something out of this, but, oh, I understand,

Kym Insana:

yeah, so many people have helped me along the way that I just

Kym Insana:

want to do something for somebody else

Janice Porter:

too. So when you started your company and and

Janice Porter:

consciously were hiring women who needed what you needed, how

Janice Porter:

did that come about? Where did did they find you? Or did you

Janice Porter:

find them? Or,

Kym Insana:

yeah, I I'm I find them. So what happened that I

Kym Insana:

started to see at the same time that I was struggling? What

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happened with a lot of people in the in the workplace that were

Kym Insana:

in positions where they started to have their first or second

Kym Insana:

child? They ended up leaving, they left the workforce. And I

Kym Insana:

would say, you know, they were, you know, they were so great.

Kym Insana:

They were so great at what they did. Where did they go? Oh, they

Kym Insana:

just stopped working because this wasn't great for them. They

Kym Insana:

couldn't be there for their kid, and they just wanted to be home

Kym Insana:

with the baby or whatever. And I was like, that's silly. Why

Kym Insana:

can't they just work from home? We're in the internet. We have

Kym Insana:

laptops, we have cell phones. You. You know, if they want to

Kym Insana:

work, shouldn't there be some part time options? And it really

Kym Insana:

wasn't a choice, and it was so disappointing, because I don't

Kym Insana:

have daughters, but you think that you you raise your

Kym Insana:

daughter, you go to college, and if it's your choice to stay

Kym Insana:

home, I absolutely respect it, but it shouldn't be that you

Kym Insana:

have you want to work and you can't work because you feel like

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now you're being torn and and you know you're losing your you

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know people feel like they're losing their selves, like they

Kym Insana:

want your career and they but they feel like it's they're

Kym Insana:

making a choice, a really hard choice, and they don't feel like

Kym Insana:

the right choice is their career, because then they feel

Kym Insana:

like they're letting their families down. But

Janice Porter:

yet they're not happy, because Exactly, they

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just

Kym Insana:

want a little bit of everything. And so I started to

Kym Insana:

see it happened, like three, four women started leaving, and

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I was like, This is so strange. So I had reached out, and I had

Kym Insana:

pretty decent relationships with them. So I reached out when I

Kym Insana:

was thinking about starting it. And Kat, who has been with us

Kym Insana:

since day one. She started. The first day I started, cat

Kym Insana:

started, and she's amazing, and she has four boys too, funny

Kym Insana:

enough, and, oh, wow, she had her last son at the same time

Kym Insana:

that I did. He's a little bit younger than Christian, so, like

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we both went through having babies, building a business and

Kym Insana:

doing this, and then other people saw us do this, and

Kym Insana:

thought like, Oh, if you have any opportunities, you know, let

Kym Insana:

us know. We started to reach back out to people that we did

Kym Insana:

see, that had left before. And then, even just recently, we or

Kym Insana:

last year, we hired an account manager that my husband worked

Kym Insana:

with who did the same thing. She was just looking for a job. Her

Kym Insana:

kids are going back into school now, and she's looking for

Kym Insana:

something part time, or someone who has a one year old looking

Kym Insana:

for something part time. And so that's how we've started to, you

Kym Insana:

know, build and find the right talent. But a lot of them, we do

Kym Insana:

know, and they're from our network, and we know there's

Kym Insana:

that trust, and there's that relationship, I was just

Janice Porter:

going to say, that's so important, right?

Janice Porter:

Especially when you have people who are working on their own

Janice Porter:

time at home, but they get the job done, because that's all

Janice Porter:

you're asking, is that they get the job done in a reasonable

Janice Porter:

amount of time, right? In that allotted Absolutely.

Kym Insana:

Yeah, and I was gonna say and provide a backup

Kym Insana:

for them, whereas they feel that they need to be doing something

Kym Insana:

with their family, someone is there to help relieve them and

Kym Insana:

help them at the office, or at the virtual office, to give back

Kym Insana:

up to them and let them feel that there is a team there a

Kym Insana:

little bit different than your typical role in a corporate

Janice Porter:

that's special. That's very special. Yeah, I

Janice Porter:

like that. Okay, let's talk about the office for a second.

Janice Porter:

Let's talk about your your business, because you're all

Janice Porter:

about digital marketing, right? And you've had some pretty big

Janice Porter:

clients, and I don't know whether you work with all

Janice Porter:

different like from small companies up, I don't know. Do

Janice Porter:

you

Kym Insana:

Yes, we work with brands of all different sizes.

Kym Insana:

Okay, and

Janice Porter:

how do you help clients choose the best digital

Janice Porter:

platform for their products and their audience? What key factor,

Janice Porter:

factors matter most, because sometimes I know people will

Janice Porter:

clients that I get that to train on how to use LinkedIn

Janice Porter:

effectively. They'll say, Oh, I'm on all the different

Janice Porter:

platforms. And I'm like, Oh, do you need to be right? So how do

Janice Porter:

you get them to see that? Or how do you choose with them, for

Janice Porter:

them, whatever.

Kym Insana:

So I think it's important to know who their

Kym Insana:

target audience is. So if you're a B to B client, LinkedIn is a

Kym Insana:

great avenue, but maybe LinkedIn is the premium, and there's

Kym Insana:

other ways to reach your B to B audience that may come at a

Kym Insana:

lower cost, and I'm more talking about, you know, depending on

Kym Insana:

how much budget you have, how far about paid advertising? Paid

Kym Insana:

advertising specific? Yeah. And so, you know, for us, we really

Kym Insana:

want to define who their target is, what has worked. And

Kym Insana:

sometimes someone may have a target audience and think, oh, I

Kym Insana:

want to be on Tiktok, because that's new, and that's where

Kym Insana:

everyone is. But when you dig in, like, what are you trying to

Kym Insana:

sell. And you know, how do these customers buy? Understanding,

Kym Insana:

are you competing with yourself because you're also putting your

Kym Insana:

product on Amazon, and are you not offering free shipping, but

Kym Insana:

you're offering free shipping through Amazon? We have to

Kym Insana:

really figure out what you know they're trying to do, and how

Kym Insana:

they sell, and where those leads come in from, and then that's

Kym Insana:

when we, you know, guide them. Obviously, we can't completely

Kym Insana:

tell them, but we guide them on where we would suggest this to

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run and budget does come into play, because you don't want to

Kym Insana:

spread yourself too thin, just like anything in life. If you

Kym Insana:

spread yourself too thin, you're not going to really see anything

Kym Insana:

that's to. Fantastically relevant to show results. So you

Kym Insana:

know, maybe it's choosing one or two platforms to start and not

Kym Insana:

being everywhere. If you're a major brand that has major

Kym Insana:

budgets, then you have the ability to kind of spread out

Kym Insana:

across all platforms. But generally speaking, a lot of our

Kym Insana:

advertisers target maybe three platforms, a meta for social

Kym Insana:

media, which is your Facebook and Instagram. Maybe they're on,

Kym Insana:

you know, running display ads and then search. It really just

Kym Insana:

depends on, you know, what the ideal target is for them, and

Kym Insana:

then kind of going from there?

Janice Porter:

Yeah, there's a lot, definitely a lot. Yeah. So

Janice Porter:

what would you say to entrepreneurs, small business

Janice Porter:

owners who feel overwhelmed by all these options?

Kym Insana:

So we always suggest, and I know that sells

Kym Insana:

us out of some deals sometimes, but try to do as much as you can

Kym Insana:

on your own for free, obviously not getting in the way of your

Kym Insana:

business. If you're looking to scale your business, then it

Kym Insana:

does make sense to hire people in certain roles. But if you

Kym Insana:

have the ability and a little bit of the know how to do some

Kym Insana:

of it on your own organically, absolutely do that. So that is

Kym Insana:

consistent posting on social media, consistent posting on,

Kym Insana:

you know, maybe, if it's a blog on your website, or some type of

Kym Insana:

communication that fits the mold of your business, if you are

Kym Insana:

even like a lender or finance or in education, are you posting

Kym Insana:

informative youtubes? You know, you can be selling tools, and

Kym Insana:

you're showing how to use these tools on YouTube, different

Kym Insana:

things like that that may have a low production cost that you can

Kym Insana:

have as organic traffic. You're only going to reach so many

Kym Insana:

people organically, and obviously factors like SEO come

Kym Insana:

into play, but being able to, you know, kind of squeeze as

Kym Insana:

much as you can out of your organic reach first before you

Kym Insana:

start to go into paid because that once you maximize that,

Kym Insana:

then you can kind of work those both together. Okay,

Janice Porter:

so even when you're doing the organic reach,

Janice Porter:

what I notice, and I'm wondering if you do, and what you would

Janice Porter:

say to these people is that they don't, they're, they're Helter

Janice Porter:

Skelter. They don't have kind of a even if they're doing it

Janice Porter:

themselves, and they're doing they're posting consistently,

Janice Porter:

but there's no rhythm to what they're doing, like, it's like

Janice Porter:

throwing mud at the wall.

Kym Insana:

Yeah, you it sometimes things take a little

Kym Insana:

while to to hit. So maybe you want to try tips every Tuesday,

Kym Insana:

and you can't do it for two weeks and then say it didn't

Kym Insana:

work, right, to keep generating. And sometimes things go viral,

Kym Insana:

and there's no rhyme or reason why it went viral. We just

Kym Insana:

happened to be on topic, and something else that went viral,

Kym Insana:

and you know, you got picked up, but you have to stay consistent

Kym Insana:

and your message to match your brand. So if you are, you know,

Kym Insana:

I always love to use Wendy's as an example, because I think

Kym Insana:

their socials are so cheeky, and they're really out there. And

Kym Insana:

they, they, you know, bite back at different companies on the

Kym Insana:

internet and everything, and it's playful and it's fun, but

Kym Insana:

they're selling hamburgers, and they're selling, you know, a fun

Kym Insana:

environment. Their logo is a girl with pigtails, like it fits

Kym Insana:

their brand. If you are trying to sell computers on a, you

Kym Insana:

know, to in a B to B basis to for Office flyers or something

Kym Insana:

like that, that may not land as well. So just trying different

Kym Insana:

things and putting jokes out there. May not, you know, make

Kym Insana:

the mark for you. So it's really, you know, definitely not

Kym Insana:

just throw mud on the wall, but make sure your brand voice comes

Kym Insana:

through. Because also, this is how you're showing who you are

Kym Insana:

with your your socials. So when somebody comes and works with

Kym Insana:

you, are you that same brand? Is this what they're going to get

Kym Insana:

and the same feeling,

Janice Porter:

right? So be true to yourself, be true to your

Janice Porter:

brand. And I know for me, it's about relationship building, and

Janice Porter:

so it's the same thing as what you're saying, build the

Janice Porter:

relationship honestly and and with your audience and with your

Janice Porter:

with your potential customers, right? Okay, here's a question

Janice Porter:

for you. I know, in your list of amazing clients you've worked

Janice Porter:

with, with major brands like the Texas Rangers, interesting and

Janice Porter:

then completely different, good American. All right, so those

Janice Porter:

are like two different brands completely. How do you nurture,

Janice Porter:

though those client relationships?

Kym Insana:

So we do get a good amount of business from

Kym Insana:

agencies. We work with agencies that are mid tier market, and

Kym Insana:

that's where I would say a lot of our relationships.

Kym Insana:

Relationships are certainly fostered, because we've had

Kym Insana:

relationships within the past. They've come through referrals,

Kym Insana:

and then over time, we build upon that. We build trust. We're

Kym Insana:

here to, you know, help them do things more efficiently, support

Kym Insana:

their team. Let them essentially save cost. Where that they can

Kym Insana:

bring. So you're

Janice Porter:

subcontracted. Then in situations, in some

Kym Insana:

situations, we're subcontracted. In some

Kym Insana:

situations, we partner with the agency and the client at the

Kym Insana:

same time, and then we have a whole book of direct clients, so

Kym Insana:

real mix, but we try to partner and bridge the gap, and maybe,

Kym Insana:

you know, with certain size agencies, they may not be able

Kym Insana:

to hire talent that can, you know, run campaigns on all

Kym Insana:

platforms. So we really just come in to do the execution, so

Kym Insana:

they'll do the strategy, and we partner to do execution, hand in

Kym Insana:

hand, and then they're not worrying about all the hiring

Kym Insana:

and all the costs that come with, you know, building a full

Kym Insana:

media team for execution, and then, you know, scaling up air

Kym Insana:

and down. Sometimes you lose clients, sometimes you win new

Kym Insana:

clients. And you need to be able to scale up or down quickly and

Kym Insana:

not put people in a position where they're, they're laid off,

Kym Insana:

or anything like that. So that's helped us in these partnerships

Kym Insana:

and having these relationships. And most of our clients, we have

Kym Insana:

about a 90% retention rate. So we do believe in relationships

Kym Insana:

and fostering and honestly transparency is the biggest

Kym Insana:

thing, because they know what's going on. We give insight with a

Kym Insana:

reporting dashboard they can go in. There's never any question

Kym Insana:

of something, did something run, or how much did it cost? It's

Kym Insana:

all there for them.

Janice Porter:

So it reminds me of when I am looking for guests

Janice Porter:

for my podcast. I don't have to look very far anymore, because

Janice Porter:

there are people every day that send me emails and say, Hey, I'm

Janice Porter:

going to pitch this person to you for podcast, and some of

Janice Porter:

them are just atrocious and don't even pay attention to what

Janice Porter:

I'm all about. They pretend they do with the statements. But then

Janice Porter:

there's a handful of people I'm going to say on one hand, I can

Janice Porter:

count the number of people that are are either an agency

Janice Porter:

themselves, or they work for an agency that I have built

Janice Porter:

relationship with, that send me good people, and that get to

Janice Porter:

know me, and I get to know I want them to get to know me, so

Janice Porter:

they send me the right people, and somebody sent you to me, and

Janice Porter:

you were the right person. As soon as I know I've had a good

Janice Porter:

conversation with somebody, and that we can have a, you know, a

Janice Porter:

decent conversation, and share some information with for my

Janice Porter:

audience around some topic that works, right? So I want to

Janice Porter:

nurture those relationships with those agencies and those podcast

Janice Porter:

companies that send me people because they're the ones that

Janice Porter:

are working and and make sense. It's all about relationships for

Janice Porter:

me and so yeah, and I love that sometimes those relationships go

Janice Porter:

further now with the people that I'm having those conversations

Janice Porter:

with, because we spend some time together, we get to know each

Janice Porter:

other a little bit and and I appreciate that. So that's

Janice Porter:

really good. So just a couple of quick sideline questions before

Janice Porter:

we wrap up, because you're on, you're in the digital world

Janice Porter:

every day, and you're dealing with what's online. How do you

Janice Porter:

gather your information these days? Do you read real books

Janice Porter:

still? Do you read online? Do you listen to books? Do you

Janice Porter:

watch videos? What do you do for your information? Gathering and

Janice Porter:

pleasure. Yeah,

Kym Insana:

and pleasure. I am a big proponent of reading. It's

Kym Insana:

probably like a broken record in my house that I'm always saying,

Kym Insana:

grab a book or read I I'm more of a Kindle reader. And

Kym Insana:

basically the reason is because when I'm doing bedtime with the

Kym Insana:

kids, I don't have to turn a light on to read the book I had

Kym Insana:

the Kindle, and it lights up. That's the reason they

Janice Porter:

get their reading that way as well. So they'll

Janice Porter:

read on

Kym Insana:

traditional books and I, or I'll read to them, but

Kym Insana:

they'll they always know that I have my Kindle, it's a joke,

Kym Insana:

whereas mom's Kindle, like, it's always around to for me to grab

Kym Insana:

and read a couple pages. Yeah, and I think it's just important

Kym Insana:

for our minds. And I switched back and forth between work

Kym Insana:

related books, maybe management strategy books or business

Kym Insana:

scaling, because I didn't go to business school, so I always try

Kym Insana:

to read a little bit about business. And then I read a lot

Kym Insana:

of nonsense books that are just books to that are light, because

Kym Insana:

I think we need to have some of that. And I don't watch a lot of

Kym Insana:

television that's not sports. Given the household demographic

Kym Insana:

I want to spend time with my kids and they don't want to

Kym Insana:

watch all the things I want to watch. So we watch a lot of

Kym Insana:

sports together, or any show that has a competition to it

Kym Insana:

will usually

Janice Porter:

a lot of competitive side. Ones, yeah,

Janice Porter:

yes. So,

Kym Insana:

like, they'll watch, there's a show extracted or

Kym Insana:

something, I don't know, it's like, survivor, and somebody

Kym Insana:

gets voted off. Like, that's okay, because there's a voting,

Kym Insana:

it's a winner. Yeah, yeah. Those are the things we watch. But

Kym Insana:

really, I try to read the trades where I can, you know, I spent a

Kym Insana:

lot of time on LinkedIn and just seeing, you know news and what

Kym Insana:

things are popping and I and right now there's a lot of

Kym Insana:

consolidation happening, and some big agents and things like

Kym Insana:

that that are that are scary for people, and so always trying to

Kym Insana:

to stay on top of things that way. But it is harder being on

Kym Insana:

your own, as you can appreciate when you're in a big

Kym Insana:

corporation, there is somebody that that's their job to provide

Kym Insana:

information to you, and then as you go on your own, you realize

Kym Insana:

you don't have that. So going back to relationships, I talk to

Kym Insana:

people all the time in the industry that are former

Kym Insana:

colleagues or anything, just to catch up and connect and then be

Kym Insana:

able to, you know, share information. I share what I see,

Kym Insana:

what's happening in my business. And then, you know, obviously

Kym Insana:

take information from them as well, because that that is

Kym Insana:

critical for our growth, and we have to keep learning. I will

Kym Insana:

never know everything about what I'm doing, and we can always

Kym Insana:

learn something new every single day. So it's important to have

Kym Insana:

conversations with people all the time.

Janice Porter:

It's so true. Now I'm so curious. I have to ask

Janice Porter:

you this based on what you just said. So you have four boys.

Janice Porter:

Your little one's going to be eight, as we're talking

Janice Porter:

tomorrow, he's going to be but you're older. Your three older

Janice Porter:

boys. I know they're all boys. Are they all competitive?

Kym Insana:

Yes, so oldest is competitive in business. So he

Kym Insana:

is in just complete his first year of college, but he competed

Kym Insana:

with deca, which is a business organization through high

Kym Insana:

schools, and so you they have like a stock market game and one

Kym Insana:

in the country. I didn't even know he knew how to short sell

Kym Insana:

socks. I didn't know what that was. I still don't know what it

Kym Insana:

is, yeah, and so he's extremely competitive in that sense. Like,

Kym Insana:

that's his thing.

Janice Porter:

Yeah, he's going to be a hedge fund. Man.

Kym Insana:

God is reading during the day. I'm like, Are

Kym Insana:

you sure you're losing 1000s of dollars or the FBI is not going

Kym Insana:

to show up, like one of those two things I'm scared of, but

Kym Insana:

the other two are in travel baseball, and that is extremely

Kym Insana:

competitive and draining financially and mentally.

Janice Porter:

I'm asking you for a reason, because I think in

Janice Porter:

today's world, it's amazing and fascinating, because so much of

Janice Porter:

school, so much when I was teaching, which was a long time

Janice Porter:

ago, but they don't want the kids to be competitive.

Janice Porter:

Everybody gets a ribbon, you know, that kind of thing. So I

Janice Porter:

think that's innate. I think that they've learned that from

Janice Porter:

their parents. I think that they've been around a

Janice Porter:

competitive family. Am I right?

Kym Insana:

Yes. And I, um, there's a joke in our house,

Kym Insana:

because I love playing board games. Yeah, and I don't let

Kym Insana:

them win. I let them win the first time. I will teach you how

Kym Insana:

to play the game, and I will let you win then. But you know that

Kym Insana:

if you beat me, you earned that, yeah, out of it, because you got

Kym Insana:

to beat me, but I don't know. I don't let them. I'm maybe a

Kym Insana:

little easier on the willow garden sometimes, but really,

Kym Insana:

because I'll beat him in trouble and run around the house

Kym Insana:

cheering, and he's, you know, he's all in good

Janice Porter:

fun. Oh yeah, my five year old granddaughter

Janice Porter:

beats me at UNO, but sometimes she cheats, so you have to, oh

Janice Porter:

yeah, yeah. I know it's so funny, but I was just, I had to

Janice Porter:

ask you that, because I love the competition piece, and I tend to

Janice Porter:

sometimes be too competitive as well, but, but I think it's a

Janice Porter:

good thing. I think it's, it's healthy. And by the way, I had a

Janice Porter:

you tell your son this the hedge fund, the future hedge fund guy,

Janice Porter:

I I had a son in law, and he's an ex son in law now, but he's a

Janice Porter:

hedge fund guy, and he used to tell me that if people in the

Janice Porter:

supermarket line were talking about a stock or talking about,

Janice Porter:

you know, what's going on, it's too late. Yes, right? So, yeah,

Kym Insana:

so it's true. He said our friends were over one

Kym Insana:

night, and they were the the dad was talking about how he where

Kym Insana:

he gets his news for his stocks and stuff like that. My son, you

Kym Insana:

have to, he pulls me aside. He said, I don't want to tell him,

Kym Insana:

but he shouldn't really be listening to that, because it's

Kym Insana:

too late and it's manipulated. It's what they want you to buy.

Kym Insana:

So it is, you know, it's funny. That's amazing. And I said, No,

Kym Insana:

you should tell him, because then he could be losing money,

Kym Insana:

and he's thinking you're just sitting there, shaking your

Kym Insana:

head, yes. So

Janice Porter:

love it. Love it. Well, that's fun. Thanks for

Janice Porter:

sharing that and indulging me in in a little bit of that

Janice Porter:

conversation. This has been delightful. I appreciate. See

Janice Porter:

your time, and I would just like to ask you one last question,

Janice Porter:

what your advice would be to entrepreneurs who want to build

Janice Porter:

a company and grow it and that reflects their values based on

Janice Porter:

what you do. So

Kym Insana:

I think it's really important to do things your way

Kym Insana:

and be true to yourself, because if you look at the textbook for

Kym Insana:

a lot of things, sometimes that doesn't work for what your path

Kym Insana:

is. If I looked at the textbook for, you know, running and

Kym Insana:

scaling an organization, it probably would say I should take

Kym Insana:

in, you know, VC money or something, and we didn't want to

Kym Insana:

do that for a lot of reasons, and that, you know, maybe made

Kym Insana:

our growth go a certain direction that would not have

Kym Insana:

been right for someone else, or not been successful from a

Kym Insana:

textbook standpoint. So I think it's important to do what's true

Kym Insana:

to yourself. And sometimes things are going to you're going

Kym Insana:

to be uncomfortable, for sure, but you should never feel like

Kym Insana:

this is not right, or, you know, to the point where it it's

Kym Insana:

painful, and so that would be my advice, you know, and

Kym Insana:

definitely, definitely, know your finances. I wish I had an

Kym Insana:

accounting degree, because I think that would have been

Kym Insana:

invaluable as well, which is why my son also kind of went into

Kym Insana:

the finance direction, because I hammered home accounting so much

Kym Insana:

that he's going to probably get, you know, try to get a CPA as a

Kym Insana:

backup. Yeah? Because I said, you know, you have to know your

Kym Insana:

finances. That's critical. Because that could be a big

Kym Insana:

mistake someone makes on your behalf. Yeah,

Janice Porter:

for sure, that's great advice. Thank you. Well,

Janice Porter:

Kim's story is proof that business doesn't have to come at

Janice Porter:

the expense of family or personal values by focusing on

Janice Porter:

trust, flexibility and relationships, she's not only

Janice Porter:

scaled a company, but created a blueprint for women to thrive in

Janice Porter:

both business and life. If you've ever felt torn between

Janice Porter:

professional ambition and personal fulfillment, Kim's

Janice Porter:

journey shows us it's possible to have both, and that sometimes

Janice Porter:

rewriting the rules leads to even greater success. How can

Janice Porter:

people find you? Kim and I write no notes. Of

Kym Insana:

course. I'm on LinkedIn. Kim and Santa. It's k,

Kym Insana:

y, M, right. I N, S, A, N, A. You can reach us through our

Kym Insana:

website, which is getaways on.com I get a lot of those

Kym Insana:

requests, or I'm Kim Kym at get always on.com

Janice Porter:

Perfect. Thank you again for being here, and

Janice Porter:

thank you to my audience for being here. If you like what you

Janice Porter:

heard, please let us know and reach out and check out Kim's

Janice Porter:

digital footprint. Shall we say? Thank you so much, and remember

Janice Porter:

to stay connected and be remembered.

Kym Insana:

Thank you. Bye.

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About the Podcast

Relationships Rule
It’s always about Relationships!
Imagine that 68% of our clients leave because they feel we don’t care. Then visualize having authentic heart-based retention strategies, proven to minimize client losses, while organically generating a substantial number of loyal clients through referrals.

Catch a glimpse of how Janice opens a conversation by applying her fine-tuned curiosity. Notice how genuinely interested she is in building a relationship with her guests – heart-based business owners and entrepreneurs. In mere minutes, guests generously share their most sweet and powerful retention systems that you can adopt today!

As a seasoned relationship marketing specialist, Janice invites us to listen in weekly, as she reveals how to nurture and build relationships in real-time.

The Relationships Rule podcast’s aim, is to help you naturally ease your networking fears, so you can adopt strategies that amplify your client list, because the facts are, that today, success is built on a foundation of strong relationships. You can relax now, knowing you can activate your relationship marketing plan, by simply tuning in to Relationships Rule each week.

About your host

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Janice Porter

I began my career as a teacher, was a corporate trainer for many years, and have now found my niche in coaching business owners to network at a world-class level.
My passion is working with motivated people, who are coachable and who want to build their businesses through relationship marketing and networking (offline & online). I help my clients create retention strategies, grow through referrals, and create loyal customers by staying connected.